you hit the nail on the head right there .. you need to trial living with each other ... so many people are gettin married these days and saying "wait a minute .. this doesnt work .. us living together" so wtf are these old traditional thinkers all about? the problem with tradition ... it doesn't have much logic in a modern world.
I agree, it's very frustrating when people still have ancient morals that most of the time arent even applicable in todays culture.
You are going back to Scotland? Are you breaking up with her? Are you going back to Scotland because she won't come visit your family? How did you meet her? You met her during a trip to Mexico? Is there any reason why she wouldn't want to come over to your house? Do you have a shitty living arrangement? Are you a slob? Do you live in a bad neighborhood? How is your bed? Is your bed comfortable? Do you live in a bad neighborhood? Maybe she feels bored at your house. Maybe she feels scared at your house. Maybe she just gets home sick or likes to sleep in her own bed. That is common. Some people just don't feel comfortable sleeping in anyone else's bed. Maybe she just needs her own space. Or maybe she's afraid her parents would think less of her or you since you're not married. Mexican families can be strict about the weirdest things even though she's old enough to figure things out for herself, you aren't married. I don't know of any tradition but then again, I'm not Mexican and I'm not catholic. As for wanting to move in with you but in three months, that makes no sense. Why not two month? Why not four? Why three? Is she on house arrest for the next three months?
He is a liar. He arranged a trip with someone else during the time he has been with this person. Called it off 'due to work.' One day out of the whole week. Seriously?