I met a girl online, we hit it off ok with lots of common interests and found each other attractive from our pictures. We agreed ot meet, she rescheduled because she was feeling sick. This last Friday we went out to a movie because she had a really hard day at school and didn't think she would be good company for dinner. She also expressed she was shy and a movie would be more fun and comfortable for her. When I showed up for the movie she bought tickets already and greeted me with a big smile. During the movie she stayed kinda close to me, touched me a few times and she was always touching her hair and smiling. After, she said she was meeting her friend who worked at the mall because she promised her to go home with her. For a blind date I thought this was reasonable. We hugged goodbye and I said I wanted to take her for that dinner, she asked me to take her to her favorite restaurant. She said "text, don't call, I'm too shy". We parted. I sent her a text right after saying "I had a great time tonight, and it was nice meeting you" She replied "it was nice I really enjoyed myself". A day later, on Sunday I sent her a text asking how her weekend was. Now it is a day later and she has still not replied. What should I do? Text again? Send her a msg on Facebook? I don't want to call because she said she was shy and I respect that. What do you think? In my life I have had 2 long term relationships and only dated a handful of times, so I'm no expert. My last girlfriend I dated for 4 years. This new girl is 19 and I'm 21. She seems mature and is going to school and has similar goals and interests which are appropriate for people in our age group. She is super cute which makes this all that much more difficult, I relly fell for her in the short time during the movie. She kept whispering to me and making little jokes.
Just wait. It's only been a day. She might not check her texts that often. Maybe she left her phone at home, or it went dead, or any number of things. After 2-3 days, think about texting her again.
Sorry I think I was just being cynical. I was just wondering how someone so shy and reserved already has you wrapped around their fingers.
In Canada we entrust the common citizen to make an informed decision at 18 or 19 (depending on province). So this isn't the case, but I can understand where you are coming from.
Girls in this country are not as nice as those from other countries, sometimes they will not reply your message which is equal to "no". But no worry, it seems that you are in a different situation.　Well, I think you should wait for a couple of days.
