Ok I met this woman online, i'm the type of dude whos shy/nervous meeting a female the first time, especially an older women, i get nervous on things like what to say during the car ride cuz she wants me to pick her up...and things to say during the movie and all that I have NEVER been with an older woman before. she has 2 kids and she is divorced..She asked if i was single i said yes i am and I'm 22 and she is 33. She asked what my major is and if I have a job etc...she asked if i was looking for a dip or a committment and i said it depends on the woman and my feelings towards her also the kind of chemistry we create. She said She's into younger guys but it depends ont heir maturity level. Heres what gets me...She said she wants someone who can be a man to a woman and a man to spoil her and also allow her to spoil me back..as well as someone that's ready to be a positive influence on her two little kids..She said shes not into most of the "games" guys my age play(I'm 22)...I said if she wants to see a movie tomorrow we can do that I think she wants to see Whiteout...Does this sound like a hit it and quit it type of deal? Cuz I damn sure don't wanna be a father figure to these 2 little kids lol...i'm into older women and all that just not diggin the whole kids thing...Any advice what we should do tomorrow? I know I already picked movie to go to. I already told her we goin to the movies and shes fine with that, but it sounds like shes looking for a commitment...which makes me think why would a 32 year old woman go after this 22 year old? She's keeping her kids at one of her friends places while we are out so if we go back to her crib after, its a possibility to smash..which I'm hopin lol...i met her online and she still hasnt even seen a picture of me lol, what did she mean when she said she wants a man to spoil her and a man who will allow her to spoil him? from what it sounds does it sound like she wants me to smash after the movie? Plus she has a job mon-fri 9-5.also im the kind of guy who when im in a movie with a lady for the first time, im kind of shy to make a move, so if shes just looking to get the d, you think she'll be making the moves first? I hope I can smash tomorrow cuz I'm not looking forward to seeing her and her kids for like a month then finally gettin it in..when i ask her what she wants to do after she says "we'll play it by ear" what do yall think that means? Also during the movie/car ride I'm always kind of nervous when meeting a new female and don't know what to talk about and hate that awkward silence. Also idk how to make the first move during the movie or if she makes the first move or whatever..totally new to this ha I appreciate all yalls help
smash......... lol just be natural and make small talk in the car like how was your day, im really glad we could meet up etc. Keep making eye contact thruout the night. JUst go with the flow.......natural instints (sp).
Based on her saying the above, I would suggest looking somewhere else to "smash" because it sounds as if she isn't looking for a quick piece of ass.
go for it bro, im 22 also and have also had one of those older woman who was actually a doctor. she didnt want games, she just wanted me. that was awesome. they really know what they want!
