I am 28 years old. I have a man. He is great. But sometimes I do not feel he is the 'one.' I consulted a psychic and said I have already met my future partner. Do you guys see the same, who is he? I have dreams, but they are not very clear.
The message of the universe for you is this: It's not as easy as you'd like it to be. Our desire for relationships and our relationships themselves are given by the universe to lead us on a path of spiritual growth. You're on a spiritual path that requires you to learn your destiny by doing what you need to do. YOUR spiritual path is to take responsibility for who you are and what you want. This will require you to learn to look deeper into your heart. You'll make mistakes, and these mistakes will help you learn. So here are the questions I see you asking yourself: What do I want from a relationship - and why? Is my partner giving me what I want? Is there someone else I know who has what I'm looking for? Am I willing and able to give up my current relationship to look for what I want? You're asking yourself these questions now, but not very consciously or deliberately. Part of you sees the possibility of discomfort - and pain - and you're trying to avoid that: You're looking for a rose-covered path, hoping things will kind of fall into place without much effort. Answering these questions honestly will require some conscious self-searching, courage, and strength. Take responsibility for who you are and what you want, and start making the hard decisions. When you've searched yourself and found your true desires, you may need to do some things to achieve those desires that are not easy or comfortable. You can use your vision to intend the outcome you're looking for, and the universe will fall in line with your deepest desires. But all gains come at a price - you need to be aware of that, and know what you're willing to pay to get where you want to be. This isn't the answer you were looking for, but it's the answer you need right now.
the 'one' is a culture myth - a confusing one . for all the sense of it you might as well think that i am the 'one' , but that's just my great and lonesome number . be content with your great man ... the reading i spin for you says your feeling of separation has no relation to your becoming .
I believe "the One" is a possibility. But sometimes adversity is a good thing in a relationship. I suppose when you have found The One, you will just know. Or you give up hope of ever finding "The One" and settle for someone else, and ignore the fact that this someone else is The One. Don't try to make someone into The One. Hmm...
Speaking of partners; a rather bizarre incident happened to me a couple of years ago that I've never told anyone. I work for a major corporation and while the job isn’t particularly difficult nor stressful it does require a certain discipline and a level of education and skill. I noticed we had a new hire so I introduced myself to her - So far nothing unusual until she made a pass at me I’m a good looking guy; single, straight, and it’s happened to me before, only in her case she wouldn’t relent. After rejecting her advances (which included her willingness to have my children) she threw me a curve ball by tossing out the T-word [telepathy] She mentioned the word telepathy as If I knew what so was talking about (which I did of course since I’ve dabbled in the art for many years) but I didn’t want to appear as if I knew what she was talking about. In any case she was let go a couple of weeks later for an undisclosed reason, but I still wonder even today who sent her and for what purpose Hotwater
Well Hotwater, I hafta ask the obvious question: So, WERE you communicating with her telepathically? Or, she with you?
To be honest I’m not certain; but it was bizarre being confronted by someone who I had never previously met, and yet knew about my abilities and wanted to share in the experience Hotwater
Hope things go well for you erickaf. Personally I believe in the "two" or maybe even "three" or "four," but to each his/her own...
Well hotwater, she was obviously the "one" and you blew it major big-time, and will never ever get an opportunity like that again for spiritual love and adventure on an unprecedented scale. But oh well, easy come, easy go.
I’m as interested as you are in discovering 'the ultimate mystery' and If it means taking chances - I’m up for it But she just seemed too eager, too aggressive, instead of taking things slowly and gradually as any prudent lover/true believer would Hotwater
