Hey, a few months ago i posted a thread on here about breaking up my break up. A short while after, i decided that although i did want her back still, i just had to move on. So, i broke off contact, got a new phone etc, and have been doing fine for the last few weeks, going out, having a great time and basically doing all the things you cant when you have a gf who is very needy. Anyway, this was fine until saturday night, a few days ago. My mums phone wasnt working, so, being a generous guy, lol, i let her have mine. I was going out with my mates and she was going for a drink with some work collegues. Anyway, i hadnt told the ex my new number, had pretty much cut her out of my life, i know it sounds nasty but youve got to do what you've got to do as im sure you all know. Anyway, somehow she found out that i was using a different number and text my phone when my mum had it. My mum just decieded to ignore it. She text the same message again a few minutes later, and then when there was still no reply, she phoned. At this point, my mum thought it would maybe be best to send here a text just saying that i didnt have the phone tonight, and that she did. So two minutes after my mum does this, she texts back, asking after my mum. My mum, who wants to enjoy her night and not have a text convo with her sons ex responded with a short message, but she text back again saying "get him to phone me please, if he wants to talk that is. Hope he knows how strong my feelings are for him and how highl i think of him." So the next day i text her, just a short message, and she has been texting me alot, even though i didnt really say that much to her as i have been trying to forget her to be honest. But now this is just playing with my head. If anyone has any opinions on this they would be much appreciated, because the last couple of moths ive convinced myself of things like she was too much trouble, i just want to be single anyway etc, all good tings come to an end and so on, and i thought i was past thinking about us, but then as soon as she gets in touch, well , i just kinda feel different. I just dont know what to make of the situation. There are so many things i dont know about the break up and what went on, but i had managed to put all those questions to the back of my mind, but now, sonce she got in touch, i cant stop replaying everything over in my head again and again
I'm not quite sure what to tell you. You have to do whats best for you, but if you think there is still a chance for you two then why not try it? If not then just tell her you have moved on and do not wish to have any kind of relationship with her.
