Do I go for my friend's girl when he won't ask her out?

OK lads and ladies
I have this friend who is a bouncer at this bar that he gets me into
anyways he's a cool guy but he just seems like he has no confidence w/ girls
I'd like to think that I have game and I've never had problems w/ the ladies

It seems like he's always having people try to hook him up. I think that he can get girls on his own if he tries. I just want to tell him he should go for it on his own, b/c really I think my succes w/ girls comes from confidence. Don't get me wrong he's a really cool dude that has confidence but when it's go time he can't ask someone out. Oh and when he eventually does talk to girls he tells them over and over how he lift's weights/is a firefighter/and that he's a bouncer. Not a big deal.

Anyways he's supposedly getting set up w/ this singer (really hot) but I think she's into me. wtf do I do? do i tell him to go for it? or do i go for the singer? he's a good friend and i've never really tried to play him for a chick. I don't think he'd be totolly pissed but what do I do?

 

lol, you found the right fourm. heh

go for the chick dude!
its not like he's worked hard or anything to get this hotty, hes getting set up dammit.

but, for the sake of preserving the friendship, just make your move without making it look like you're TRYING to take the girl. this way it looks like an honest coicidence and the story has a happy ending.

 

Just talk with him about it,

 

Take the pressure of him by not 'hooking him up' or telling him about any girls you have 'hooked up' with ... i am sure it does not help because you two are diffrent people ??? he probably wants a diffrent kind of girl than he actualy thinks people wish for him to have .. wrong crowd and all.

do you dominate the conversation when your speaking with him and/or other girls..

It's a start.

NO

 

Please please please please please please please DO NOT ASK THE GIRL OUT! If your friend likes her, then you getting with her is a slap in the face. If I had a female friend that did that, I don't think I could be her friend anymore. I think it's the ultimate form of backstabbing. KNOWING that they like someone and then moving in.

IF he's not good with the ladies, then teach him. Show him the ropes. Some guys are simply just clueless (and some females aren't much better).

I'm begging you, do not ask this girl out. I know what it feels like to have someone move in on someone I liked, and it's NOT a good feeling.

 

You have to decide if you want the friend or the girl... you cant have both!

 

I think possibly he would go 'mmmm not sure'..but thats a unfair assumption i guess.

 

come on kids, its always possible to get the girl and keep the friend. like i said, make it look accidental. like i said, he's getting hooked up anyways, so it's not like he's going to loose anything with her. i might have a different stance if he's known her for years and they've been good friends and he didnt want to ruin that, but that's not the case.

 

if you really really think it can turn into something with her than ya if not than bros before hoes

 

Ordinarily I'd say "give him one chance to jump her bones, then just say meh and have her for yourself." What's he gonna do, say "I saw it first"?

But he's a fucking bouncer! So what's he gonna do, cave yr skull in?