I was recently watching some porn from the Virgin category, in RedTube, which I am extremely skeptical about any of these videos being genuine, despite the shots showing the penises being covered in what is supposed to be hymenal blood. While I openly admit that I have never had the privilege of taking a girl's virginity (all the women I have been with have been thoroughly experienced), like most of us, I consider myself to be reasonably well informed as to the theory behind things. Putting all the various definitions of exactly what 'virginity' is to one side, and accepting it as being the initial penetration of the vagina by a penis, this leads me to wonder just how many women actually have their hymen broken by the penis, or if it has been broken long before from various forms of masturbation, be it with fingers or the insertion of other toys, such as vibrators & dildoes, which are bound to be in common use long before any actual physical sexual contact. Otherwise, it would be like saying that a man's doesn't have his first ejaculation until he loses his virginity & inseminates a woman.
I got the dreaded "call this number and book your smear test" letter the other day. My first. I'm petrified. This sounds completely dumb not to know my own body, but to me it looks like my hymen hasn't broken at all and I've never broken it though horse riding or the like. It takes me a long time to work myself up to intercourse with my boyfriend, and thankfully he's appreciative of how slow I can be. I do wonder if my hymen is overly thick, since me and tampons aren't very good friends either. I guess I'll find out at this fucked up smear test I need to book.
They are fake. Just like most first time anal sites you can't just go ramming it in for the first time.
It's been done for centuries. Ever since men came up with showing bloody sheets after the wedding night women were finding out how to fake virginity. I've read somewhere that they smeared the opening with irritating substances so it would swell and put pieces of animal liver inside their vaginas. To dollyfizz: if you had an intercourse with your boyfriend your hymen is already stretched/torn. You still need foreplay so that your body readies itself for intercourse. During arousal your vagina lubricates and lengthens and the first 1/3 becomes engorged with blood making it more sensitive to touch and tighter. Without these preparations intercourse would not be enjoyable - it would be painful. That's why inserting a tampon is unpleasant for many women. Tampon is dry to the touch and it's rubbing on the walls during the insertion. Don't feel bad about how your body works! If you want to find more about your body check out Betty Dodson's site and The Clitoris.
Stretched, of course. Broken? God knows. It's like cock is an incredibly tight fit and I'm very sure there could still be some more stretching to do.. I get plenty of foreplay. I'm also experienced. Tampons are fine (providing I'm not suffering a freak allergic reaction like I sometimes do) once I've forced them past what ever it is that makes it seem like a 'barrier'. I don't feel bad about how my body works, I feel pretty good about it.
Yeah, just like all those "brother/sister" videos. Porn is so stupid. I can't stand it yet I'm oddly attracted to it.
I think it's pretty much common knowledge that most of the porn videos are faked, but my question referred to how many women get to tear their hymen when they actually lose their virginity, compared to how many tear it through other activities, such as masturbation with dildoes / vibrators / fingers etc., or even other physical activities, such as horse riding, which is known to frequently tear the hymen. I find it difficult to believe there are many girls who don't explore the sexual experience via masturbation long before they are actually penetrated by a real penis, so with this in mind, how common is a fully intact hymen at the time of losing virginity?
dont get too addicted to porn since they are fake. look at some porn videos, they last for hours, but in fact the real show only last for a very short time only. somehow they used some technologies to prolong the video timing
I consider any where a 3rd party is involved holding the camera to be fake. I don't even trust the ones where they withdraw at the last minute for the ejaculation (money shot) to be that reliable. As far as I'm concerned, the best ones are the truly amateur ones, where it is clearly apparent that a couple have decided to set up the camcorder on a tripod to record a session of lovemaking - even better if it is properly to completion, with full 'creampie'. However, something I have found to be exceptionally rare - so rare, in fact that I think I have only ever seen one example, and even that was questionable, are videos involving the full use of condoms to completion, showing the man withdrawing afterwards, with the teat of the condom filled with his semen. It seems that whenever the use of a condom is involved, it always gets removed in time for the ejaculation. Personally, whenever I have sex, I find that my instinctive drive is to thrust deeper & harder in the moments leading to the climax. Withdrawing would be the last thing on my mind, and would take quite strong will power to do so. Knowing how this feels, I find it far more arousing to watch a couple having sex to the end, and would find witnessing the correct use of a condom to be a turn on also. It's certainly a pity that the porn industry seems to influence lovers, especially those who may be inexperienced in the art, as to what is really expected of them, what with all the display techniques & positions designed purely for the camera.
