hey im a 17 yr old and im straight. I am also good at academics im the varsity water polo captain and ill be a senior in high school this year. I am a very busy guy and I haven't been in any real relationships with any girls. This summer was actually my first time going on some dates. I am a really busy guy and I am pretty well rounded plus I don't go out on weekends and party till i am plastered out of my mind nor do i do any drugs. I am also not some loser that sits home on the couch everyday. I have a question that i need feedback on and just wanted to give some back ground information. Is it weird that i have not kissed or made out with girls when I am a senior in high school?
No!, you are just more select than most. However, it is fun, can lead to really great 'other' acts, and - it is a great way to catch mono, if you need a good excuse for not having done your homework. The next logical question - assuming no kissing = no sex: it is neither weird not to have had sex with a woman and be a senior in high school. Stay concentrated on what does interest you, kid. One of these days kissing, screwing, and all that stuff will begin to be attractive to you. You're just a late bloomer with lots of other stuff to keep you busy. AND, no STDs, no spending (wasting) money on girls hoping against hope that you'll get some action, and probably not too many chicks gossiping about you. Keep your arrows straight as long as you can, PrepRmblr! You're off to a good start in life. Congrats!
Ignore this guy. You are just fine. People bloom at different times. At my age, I can tell you that if I had "bloomed" at a later age it would not have been a big deal. You will most likely find a woman who has much more respect for you because you didn't get around too much. Ultimatelly I would guess that you will be a one woman man and actually be able to stay in a monogamous relationship. That is a huge plus and will make your life much less complicated and you a happier person in the end. Just make sure you find a girl who is the same. When you get to college, and it sounds like you are definately going, things may change, too. Just don't be rushed and go at your own pace.
What the hell is someone doing on this forum who uses a word such as 'gay,' to intimidate, insult or otherwise harass a questioner. I'm tired of mods sacking my posts, yet letting creeps (figures, from Texas)insult perfectly honest questioners! Who's in charge?
