Finding a women with a head on her shoulders is harder than ever. I don't mean to traget women as a whole (that wouldn't be fair) but the last three years i've been dealing with the same shit. I try my best to keep an open mind but, wtf? Ima be single forever if i can't find someone with morals. The ladies i have dated have been good times, although, in the end i always feel im dealing with the same shit. Im in my mid twenties and it seems my generation; ever girl does the same thing. Example. Talks on her cellphone constantly, or texts 24/7. I cant have a real conversation (i mean NO gossip) without being interrupted by a phone sound. Im trying to have a good deep respectable conversation with you. Unless your parents or friend is dying why can't you put that shit on mute for one hour? Doesn't wear any underwear (i swear every generation is heading this way, not to say i disagree or agree, but when you hear them complain about us men being perverts or we are always caught looking, fuck look at the attention you bring upon yourself) Do i need huge arms? and ripped tricepts to prove im tougher than the guy down the block to make you feel safe? Have you never seen a smaller person step it up and show you size comes in all strengths? Irrationality won't get you anywhere. i'm trying not to sound like ima just complain, but fuck man, in todays society i feel people are so controlled. Maybe its the news or all those fucking magazines telling the young female mind how to think and how to act towards men. I don't know, i just feel everything and everyone is becoming the same. just wanna meet someone who is real and not caught up in gossip. anyone understand what im trying to say?
No it isn't. I guess you're not important enough for her to disconnect from the rest of the world for a few moments. Wtf?.. Nope, but it helps. That's probably why. You need to be positive with regards to people and see the best in them.
(Woman just walked into the men's room and is about to start talkin' shit) Have you thought that maybe it has to do with the type of women you are going after?
Yea bro I don't think I've run across any of that bull shit just some women are ho'z but that's fine too cause sometimes less attachment is needed.
God i wish being a huge motherfucker still had some mileage with the ladies, I'd be beating them off with a stick. Protip: Don't pickup girls in bars, the nice ones are at home.
Broony, I think it is unfortunate that you haven't had good experiences with women the last couple years; but it sounds like you've just hit a spot of bad luck. Chin up, as a good man is a hard to find, by the same token the converse is also true. People in general are shitty, no matter which sex you find yourself talking to imho. I know a guy who can't tear himself off the phone for more than 30 minutes. It's aggravating as hell and I can only imagine what the women he dates think of it... perhaps they are saying a similar thing you are. Just a thought. Good luck in your endeavor to find happiness in romance.
You seem to have amazing insight into your own feelings and that's fantastic. Well, I say that because I like what you have to say. I guess you're feeling burdened but hopefully that will make you all the more likely to find this person. Or persons. It seems the most thoughtful people have the hardest time. How cruel.
Fail: If you are only going to bother interacting with the ones that you are trying to get into thier pants, thats half the problem Fail: Once you marry she's got decades to listen to your deep respectable conversations EPIC fail: Its a test, to see if your controlled enough to look in their eyes Another Epic fail: The big arms arent about how they can be used on other guys Fail: All those lads magazines dont do the same thing, every ad used to sell something to the guys doesnt have a set of knockers in the foreground? You need to try get in their heads, and to do that you have to detach the big brain from the little brain in your pants
Says the guy who thinks a negative comment like this is worth typing go work on yours, dude. Anywho i know what your saying dude; you just gotta keep going and eventualy you'll find someone. Also i totaly argee with the chick who said its harder for thoughtful people to find love, i guess we complecate things to a level which is a bove the basic state of mating/reproduction. Atleast you can be sure when you do have a partner however, she won't be someone you end up devorcing only to see her on the jeremy kyle show weeks later questioning who - out of 5 men is the real dad ! Keep looking
Yeah Broony man I can relate also. I be myself, I'm happy, I'm funny and yet it seems like everysingle girl goes after the guy who dresses with either expensives clothes or some trendy Holister BS. And when I fail to talk to a girl about anything other than gossip they just walk away and talk with someone who is so up to date. I can't stand TV and I hardly ever watch it so I don't follow the latest bullshit. I've got another year in college, hopefully I meet someone their who gets me. Also I hate the cellphone as well. It pretty much eliminates any chance at conversing with a girl on say the bus or any other public place. Seriously girls, put down the cell once in a while!
That's awful! I have a friend like that, he's always trying to have deep conversations. Is it any wonder that I'd rather hear the T-Mobile ring tone? I feel imposed upon by his preconceptions of how conversations should go. No humor, linear, full of safe cliches. Obviously, you're not attracted to prudes either. Is it so surprising the women you meet aren't attracted to you?
