I won't lie my mom is one of the nicest people I know but she's also the most controlling, annoying bitch I know. I wouldn't mind her not being around anymore, not that I'd kill her, it'd just be nice for her to disappear. She's caught me smoking weed a few times so now whatever I do has a hidden motivation behind it according to her. She even hounds me on the computer standing over my shoulder to make sure "I'm not getting drugs." Smoking weed also makes me "the most self centered person ever". I always help her around the house or whenever she needs it at work but yea I guess that makes me self centered. Also she doesn't stop bothering me about religion. She's a very big christian so she doesn't leave me alone with that. I used to be into Buddhism and became very spiritually evolved until my mom slowly tore that away by constant lectures of it being the wrong way. Also she says that I'm narrowminded because I won't agree with her that weed is bad. Well I've tried the sober way and the high way(no pun intended) and I like weed more. She's never even smoked so maybe she's the narrowminded bitch. God I hate her.
whenever she's looking over your shoulder on teh computer have the page open to a site that talks about the benefits of weed....leave it open on various pages of the same subject so she starts doing her research and broadens her horizons. you personally probably cant convince her, but actual facts could sway her?!
It's a good idea and all so thanks but once my mom makes up her mind that's it. And if she caught me looking up weed she'd just kick me off the computer lol Good
I support this. Maybe you should follow up with a renounciation of religion, or worse, a conversion to islam, just to make sure she gains some perspective.
hating her is hardly beneficial to your cause, in fact it'll probably just further fuel her fire.... get pamphlets or print offs then, leave them in her mail box...buy her a book....don't just hate her and be done with it, even the most stubborn of people can change given the right conditions. she loves you above all else and is worried about your health/life/choices, if you believe strongly enough in what you're doing then you have to defend them....that in itself will show her that you're capable of making sound decisions and whether or not she agrees with them she'll eventually trust that you have good judgment and maybe back off a bit.
hate is too strong a word for you mom dude....not cool at all....no wonder she thinks your a douchebag....lighten up on the hatred or she will never come around
Eh, I don't think so. He doesn't actually hate his mother, he's just being dramatic and using a word he doesn't really understand the meaning of.
Ok, agreed hate is a bit harsh of a word. I don't hate my mom, I just hate how she acts most the time. Not that that's much better but it's true. My mom can be the greatest person in some ways and the worst in others. Oh well.
That is a mom's job. I don't understand it, my mom and I can be the best of friends one minute, and I want to stab her eyes out the next. Mine is an alcoholic and needy whining and crying bitch, and stupid as fuck....controlling and ignorant and always has to have her way, but I know I can't even finish the thought of 'I hate you' in my head without feeling bad about it, much less say it out loud. I'd say it is MUCH better to vent on the interweb about the feelings you've got for your ma than to say it to her. She just wants the best for you (all moms do-and to most, the 'best way' is their way, and only that)
fortunately you won't be dependent on your mom forever. you'll eventually be old enough to get out from under her roof and live your life without being hounded and harassed by your maternal religious fanatic. you might consider finding a part time job or do odd jobs and start saving up now for your escape. once you've got some distant between you and her your hatred likely decrease to mere eye rolling annoyance and you'll probably start feeling some affection for her again. it's a mother's job to be a loving asspain. sounds like your mom takes her job quite seriously. you really have no choice but to be patient. perhaps get quietly (secretly) back into Buddhism. meditation could only do you good under such stressful circumstance.
My mom and I got along much better after I moved out. Now I've had to move back in with her after 4 years and we hate each other again. Yet, love each other more than anyone else. So I feel you. Hang on just a little longer!
i totally get what you are saying my mother is just like that if she cant learn to accept you as you are as her child then just dont talk to her when you leave her house thats how me and my mom are i havent talked to her in ages cause all she does is bitch it will get easier once you leave believe me
