Confused..

Learned hes an ass.

Whatev.

 

Meet first, then come back here and ask questions/advice about what to expect/how to move/have a relationship.

 

What do you mean meet first then ask questions?

 

Meet the guy first.

 

Yea. Thats a good idea..

 

So you think i should for sure go there and meet him?

 

Nope, I think he should travel to you.

I also think it should be a public place and you should bring a friend along.

 

Yea, i am definatly cautious about alll of that.
Is what i was thinking about doing is have him meet me halfway there and in a public space before i go further along.

 

Why waste the chance to test him a bit. Make him travel all the way.

 

He can't.
His mom won't let him.

And im like 95% percent sure he is who he is...
I've talked to him on the phone and has heard his mom and his sisters and on facebook i checked his page out and i see his sisters on there and i saw comments and stuff from them and whatever and he shows no signs of like a psycho rapist...

 

They usually dont.

 

Yea, do you think it would help me be sure if i talked to his sister or something?

Like his facebook seems pretty legit...
He also has an account on here.

http://www.hipforums.com/newforums/member.php?u=161594

 

A webcam session with his mother would usefull.

 

I don't have a webcam.
And i don't know if he does.

 

hmm, and not knowing if he has a webcam does not bother you in anyway ?

Seems like one of the basic things one would know about another when communicating online. All the FB stuff can be faked. The voices in the background too I guess.

You need to complete due diligence before you start thinking of meeting.

 

Well later on when i talk to him im gunna ask him if he has one and be like im not gunna meet you unless i am 100% sure your not a psycho rapist...
Even though he might see this whole thread.

And be like i wana see your mom.

 

How old r u hon?
How old is this guy?
I think what simplistic may have been getting at earlier as well( I could be wrong) is that you really shouldn't be the only one going out of your way to be proactive in this situation
Meaning, you are the one doing all the driving, spending your money, going out of your way to see him
It kinda sets a precedent that you don't really want
The guy needs to be making at least equal effort
But the safety factor here is very important as well
Please be careful
Do your homework
I don't want to read about you in the news babe

 

I'm not the only one though he is trying to make effort and he wants to like go and meet me halfway so we would both be going and we would both be spending money and we would both be meeting in a public space.
I am 17 i turn 18 in November and he is 17 he just turned 17 and his birthday was accurate cause on his facebook he had a million hapyy b-day comments and everything.
I understand the safety factor and thanks for the caring i honestly don't want to be on the news for that either... i guess thats why i made this thread.

 

well i hope it all works out for you
i myself have done something similar
i don't wanna be a nay sayer and rain on your parade
if you feel this strongly about it then i think you should follow your heart
just do it wisely
good luck babe

 

What happened with you???
Maybe that can help me...

No, you wont rain on my parade dear i made this for open opinions and advice... thanks for your input.. seriously.. thanks.