Question for girls about boyfriend/breasts

Discussion in 'Love and Sex' started by chaosbydesign, Aug 18, 2009.

  1. chaosbydesign

    chaosbydesign Member

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    I have a question for mostly GIRLS... Guys can give their input as well, but please specify if you're a guy.

    Background information: A girl is dating a guy. The girl is rather thin and has A cup breasts.

    Okay, so in the "hypothetical" situation:

    Boyfriend: *touches his girlfriend's boobs*
    Bystander: "Don't grab where there is nothing."
    Boyfriend: *laughs* "Yeah... there's nothing there."

    And later on at some point:

    Girlfriend: "I have to go get some food"
    Boyfriend: "You need to get some boobs"


    So the question is... Does the girl have a right to be angry at this boyfriend? Tell me, is it not a known fact that making fun of a body part on a girl that she might have "shortcomings" with is a HORRIBLE idea? Does this guy deserve to be slapped?

    Let me know your opinions.
     
  2. TheAbominableIronSloth

    TheAbominableIronSloth Banned

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  3. BareFootBoy

    BareFootBoy Member

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    you shouldent be with him if hes genna critisize your body like that, thats just my imput, btw ima guy
     
  4. freeinalaska

    freeinalaska Hip Forums Supporter HipForums Supporter

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    The boyfriend is clearly a douche and doesn't appreciate a fine A cup breast. The girl should break up with him, but only after making rude, little dick comments about him in front of other people.

    btw I am a male.
     
  5. ahimsa

    ahimsa Senior Member

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    ***I have a penis***

    It seems pretty obvious to women and men who have been exposed to women that this is hurtful behavior.

    Yes, you have the right ot be upset.

    That said, men don't necesarily have an appreciation of how hurtful this can be because, as a whole, they tend not to have as much trouble with body images. Also, young men tend to have less grace in these situtations.

    I'm not excusing this man nor am I saying it should be tolerated. But, I would go about it by explaining that it is something very hurtful rather than just be angry with him. He is more likely to see the legitimacy of your point and not react defensively. If he continues to treat you like this, then he really is an ass and not just naive.
     
  6. kzf68xC8

    kzf68xC8 Member

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    [M] I don't have a vagina.

    I heard some sex psychologist [sexologist?] say that quite a few women are concerned about their breast size as much as a male is about his penis size. If the girl were to joke around about his penis size, I am sure he wouldn't appreciate it. So yes, it would be normal to be upset.
    I question the guys maturity.
     
  7. danielleinthesky

    danielleinthesky Member

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    im a girl, and yeah slap him :] even if he was joking, its rude.
     
  8. drumminmama

    drumminmama Super Moderator Super Moderator

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    Okay, so in the "hypothetical" situation:

    girlfriend: *touches her boy's penis*
    Bystander: "Don't grab where there is nothing."
    girlfriend: *laughs* "Yeah... there's nothing there."

    And later on at some point:

    boy: "I have to go get some food"
    girl: "You need to grow some cock"

    Ok, do we have a quit being mean to each other concensus?
     
  9. sg girl

    sg girl Member

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    wtf i would have smacked him
     
  10. MissBHave

    MissBHave insert clever phrase here

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    he's a prick
    move on
     
  11. atla23

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    Is this thread posted twice? Anyway ill say it again, this guy is a douche and should be on a puss ban.
     
  12. Peter Popper

    Peter Popper Tripper

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    thats pretty bad. even i wouldnt say that shit.

    i think the worst thing i said to my gf was that ," i wasnt on enough drugs to be with her anymore...."
     
  13. -CoDy-

    -CoDy- Member

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    wow that's really fucked up for real
     
  14. Coromaster

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    I think I would MUCH rather hear the former then the latter.
    Anyway, my masculine self believes that any guy who is in any way dickish to his girlfriend doesn't deserve to have a girlfriend.
     
  15. Peter Popper

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    yeah it was pretty mean. i took my gf for advantage...but iv learnt a bit about that...
     
  16. FireflyInTheDark

    FireflyInTheDark Sell-out with a Heart of Gold

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    Wow. Fuck that guy. If he doesn't like it he can go find some other chick to abuse. You don't need that shit.
    How old is this little pissant? He sounds like a 15 year old...
     
  17. Xegar

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    i would never say anything like that to a girl.
    enough information?
     
  18. Greengirl

    Greengirl Senior Member

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    depends on the girl. there are different peope out there. sure there may be a lot who would be very insulted , but i am sure others just won`t give a shit. for me i will say to him to shut his dirty mouth or i will bithe his tounge off :rolleyes::rolleyes::rolleyes:
     
  19. quantum0menace

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    i have big breasts and people (friends family boyfriends) always make fun of me because of that,
    but i am a sort of person who jokes all the time, so people assume i dont get offended...
    but i do get upset sometimes

    point:
    it's not the size that makes people joke about them...
    its just that people make fun of breasts/dicks

    now,
    did you make jokes ab your breasts before his remarks?
    if so, he just thinks he will make you laugh
    tell him you dont find it funny. and

    if not,
    he's a prick, slap him. and make a rude remark ab his dick, of course.
     
  20. Peter Popper

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    tell him his dicks small and bent.
     

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