I Last Too Long

First of all, I want to say that this is completely serious and not joking around at all.

I'm 16 and I just started being sexually active (yay!, by the way). The problem is that I haven't been able to cum yet. The first three blowjobs I got were 20, 60 and 45 minutes, and I didn't cum. We've had sex multiple times for over an hour, I still haven't cummed.
This is extremely frustrating! We will both literally be dripping sweat on every place of our body before I can finish. Is there any way to speed up this process? Anything to eat, positions, tips..? Have you ever experienced this before (guys)?

-Aldor


Edit:
More details:
I can finish when I masturbate.
I am not on any medication.

 

Thats fine !!!

Why do you want to cum ?

Thats what causes all of the problems ...

 

When i started being sexually active I had the same problem a couple of times. It's not because it wasn't good, just because it was new to me and I was a bit nervous as to where I would cum and if she would swallow or not. Eventually, I got over this and never had this problem again. Just try to relax and let yourself go.

Hope this helps.

 

Have you tried putting it in her pooper?

Just masturbate together until you feel very comfortable with each other. It'll happen soon enough. If you put too much pressure on yourself and her, it won't even be fun anymore. The cumming isn't the important part. The sharing and the fun are what it's all about.

 

We have fun and enjoy all the sharing and etc..
I just wanna cum
I get horrible blue balls after. I couldn't walk after the hour blowjob... lol

 

you asked what to eat to make you cum lol

 

you're just thinking too much
reeeelllaaaaaxxxxx

 

Jake yeah lol Im desperate.. I need to finish,


And MissBHAve, thats what she said too. But we've done it a lot now and I still haven't finished.. and I don't feel uncomfortable at all .
Actually, I feel very comfortable ..

 

It doesnt have to have anything to do with whats going on inside your head.

Just that not all guys have the same sensitivity down there, and you never hear guys talk about it cos if they do say they are stayers, what happens -from the guys you get "oh you're such a friggin stud" and the girls just think your lying

 

maybe you're gay:rofl:

 

I wish i had a boyfriend with your problem

 

My girlfriend says she'd rather have someone who cums too fast.. ha. It makes her feel bad about her self. She thinks she's bad in bed and at giving head, but she really isn't!

Yeah haha I don't think 90% of the girls would believe me..

 

she's young.. poor thing
were she's my age she'd be singing a different tune

 

Have your girlfriend take control of you for a while. Here's what she should do.

http://www.seekers.org.uk/Orgasm Control.htm

Try it on her, too. It works. You may not believe it, but I have seen the results.

 

For really...
When me and my x would have sex we would have sex for almost two hours then he would cum then he would want to go again..
It was great.

 

Thanks, this seems to be the best advice so far! I'll give 'er a go and keep you guys posted

 

Great! I'm looking forward to the updates.

Remember: don't cum.

 

You're probably masturbating too often or too hard. To get the sensitivity back, quit it for like a straight week.

 

The point is to cum! But it didn't work lol.

I think I'll have to resort to this, as hard as it sounds haha. I do it daily so it's gonna be tough.

 

Maybe this is the problem. Some guys will masturbate right before they see their gf so they last long, what you need to do is stop jerkin and then you'll be good