liking it rough

good!

 

u can easily scare a guy off. he may think ur a bit to 'slutty', or full on...
guys want full access and rough sex to a point....

 

My boyfriend and I had to work up to this point. For us it came naturally, when we got to understand one anothers body. These days he can put his hand up my skirt and have me screaming 10 seconds later. It kind of just worked naturally. Of course we feel comfortable talking about it too, but I think you should only cross this line when both partners are completely comfortable. I wouldn't feel comfortable being roughed around by someone I'd just met or someone I was just developing a new sexual relationship with.

Also, when it comes to rough sex I sort of don't want to ask for it. I just want to get it. I'm submissive, he's in control. That's how I love it.

It's also a good idea to talk about how rough you want it. We're not into getting slapped across the face, drawing blood or even hurting each others bodies. We don't like anything that's going to hurt once the moment is over. The best thing for us is always punishment- "Keep your legs open wide. Close them and I'll slap your pussy.." and the name calling- "You slutty bitch.." and also of course the hair pulling, cock down throat and getting his cum all over my body.

It's a learning curve. Tell him you would like it a little rougher, but respect him if he won't go as rough as you'd like him to.

 

true

 

true but that's HIS problem then...
i'd rather be myself, not act differently because they might judge me or i may not be their cup o tea.

 

well said

 

:cheers2: cheers

 

well the best way then is to work them up to it, not jump right in.

its not a matter of not being yourself, its a matter of playing it cool. u have to play ur cards right. then do it slowly whatever.

me and my X were pretty kinky, we had lots of toys, did lots of anal. had good sex, i loved grabbing her throat and fucking her with a bit of control. but i honestly would be turned off as to the other, i think i would run a mile. id have to see how it went first tho

 

thnx for dee advice

 

sg girl,
You might try a little bit at a time. He might want to make love and you wanna fuck hot and nasty. So work it in slowly, within a week or two you'll be pounding his face with your box.

(I can't believe this is my second post here/is everyone this horny?)

MissBHave your cute too! - Dale

 

Thanks Dale!

 

Hey MissBHave,
I'm not shy. I just gotta go to work till 1AM. Maybe we can talk another time? - Dale
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Peace, Love and Family is what my soul searches for, it's my body that keeps getting me lost.

 

fo sho

 

i loved taking my X gf aginst the wall in the shower. thats allways hot.

 

cool

thanx for the advice