I appoligize if this has been posted before. ...when I ask my lover(im a male she's a female) to perform oral sex on me and gets tired really easy and it would be awesome if she would continue sucking, licking, till i came in her mouth, without me having to jerk myself at all. The problem might also be that I take too long to cum. So, guy's and gal's, what do you all recommend me doing or giving my lover in order for her to last longer??? Any thoughts and comments are greatly appreciated.
I dunno man. My gf rarely sucks me more than a minute or two, but last night since we were celebrating my birthday and she happened to be on her period I actually got her to give me a full bj to completion for the first time ever. It was pretty terrible and she complained afterward that her mouth hurt or something (also spit, of course). Some women just aren't into oral. Which is a fucking tragedy. And yes I do go down on her and I enjoy it, but she doesn't seem to care for it that much either.
Poor guys... lol The easiest way is 69. As long as your licking her she's sucking you. But as far as blow jobs go you guys don't realize that to keep my teeth off you dick I gotta cover my teeth with my lips and continue with all the sucking and what not. After awhile you get these cuts in your mouth from the pressure. It does hurt but if the girl is smart she'll vary. Hands, tongue, then deep throat, etc. Keeps it from getting repetitive AND helps keep the from shredding the inside of her mouth.
I have a friend who takes a long time getting off, and it does wear out your mouth after a while. So, vary. Use hands & different mouth techniques, move around, suck in balls and whatever to keep from using the same muscles continuously. I have encountered thick guys and it is more tiring so I can imagine girls with smaller mouths would have a problem. I am really into oral and that determination helps. Can't imagine not being into it and just doing it for my guy. Maybe I should start a suckoff respite service to help str8 guys whose G/F can't take care of them.
No BJ is a dealbreaker. I would dump a girl immediately for that. Already dealt with girls like that in my younger years, no thanks, never again! And a random response to Shale's signature -- growing old is not mandatory. Well, not forever, anyway. Only today. SENS.org is the spearhead of many research organizations working on just that problem! And heck, the way you look, you keep yourself in shape like someone 25 years younger, hehe.
Why don't you go oral on her first, then you'll be all ramped up to blast quick when she does you? Or are you a typical American boy who thinks he should get all the excitement and a woman should do all the work. You sure sound like one! If you are, tell her to bite it off and that will solve both her and your problems. Then she can find a real man who thinks of her first! (**Maybe I'm being too harsh; but he did sound sorta selfish. Oh well, a little criticism will do him good no matter!)
Is she sucking too hard at first? Slow down so she doesn't get tired. If this is not sexy to you, then you are screwed. Or buy some adrenaline and pump it into her.
i once solved this problem by gettin my girlfriend to sit and watch a couple of bj scenes in some xxx movies so she could see for herself how the pros do it.... having said that... in my experience its easier to get a bj off a one nighter than a wife or gf
if she gets tiered from giving u a blowjob she needs to alternate from using her hands to using her tounge to using her lips to using her tits if needed to i used to get tiered giving my xxxxxxxbf a blojob but i had this one lover whom i just used to practice oral on nedless to say practice makes perfect
Yea, I was thinking about that....but....man she's a girl I've been talking to a long ass time and dumping her would mean I talked to her that long for nothing.
Fastwitch has a point: I'll happily respond in kind when my partner goes first...if we can't get to 69 because of various situations. But as Shale said thick is tiring. It's a lot of jaw work, and sometimes I'm too impatient, if we are planning on a quickie. So shrink it. ;P
If her mouth gets tired, try that good old fashioned favorite FOREPLAY. Fondle each other, lick each other (don't forget your (his) nipples) until you are hot and about to come in the air. THEN she goes down.
