This question is aimed primarily at those guys that see themselves as predominantly Straight, although with a little personal adaptation, anyone can respond. The situation is based loosely on something a quadruple amputee college friend of mine once told me about the month he had to spend in hospital after his crash, where he lost the use of said limbs. Consider yourself in such a situation where you are incapacitated for a long term - not necessarily permanent, but you are certain to be in such a condition for at least the next few months. The regular male nurse comes into your room to give you your daily bed bath. He cannot fail but notice that despite the rest of your body being non-functional, there is nothing wrong sexually, as demonstrated by the throbbing erection you have, which is clearly causing you some physical discomfort. He diplomatically makes no mention of it while he gives you your bed bath, but when he's finished it is still showing no sign of easing, so he offers to give it the physical relief it is so desperately in need of. He explains that is is hospital policy to permit nurses to masturbate long term patients in such conditions of physical incapacity if they request it, but that it may only be done be a same sex nurse. He also mentions that although he is openly Gay, he doesn't see this as a sexual act, but simply as providing a form of medical treatment, just as he would to any other patient. You have now had this erection for hours & it's really aching as a result. The question is, knowing that there is no way that you can do it for yourself, do you take him up on his offer?
It would be better if he had a one of those fake vaginas, but I guess I'd go for it considering the circumstance.
I'm not a guy, but if I was then I certainly would. It's impossible to imagine being in that situation, but I think having another man ease an aching cock would be the least of my 'straight' worries.
I have no way of knowing if what my friend told me was true or mere fantasy on his part, but as the UK is internationally noted for the quality of its National Health Service, it wouldn't surprise me if it might have happened. I, for one, would welcome the service, but then, being Bi I'm biased.
Why not? I really hope I wouldn't get injured like that, but if that ever happened, then I would take him up on his offer. It's interesting because I was once thinking of the same thing years ago, except the roles being reversed and I wasn't a male nurse but just a very good friend. The conclusion that I'd come to then, even though I'm hetero sexual for the most part, was "what the hell, sure".
hey, my kinda favor of corse, hard to think outside of my gay mind, ill try.... id say in that kind of condition, id think: is he bare hand, gloves, some kind of material between him and my arousal. personaly, if i was straite i think id still want a younger more attracting guy, purly out of want for comfert, but any decent looking guy, with a good pair of gloves, lube, and my very....sexual imagination .....i dont think id suffer to bad in the sexual manor of the predicament with that kind of offering. seriusly though, i did not know that they did that...kinda a shocker to me really...
I don't know for certain that they do - it's just something that a former college mate told me of something he supposedly experienced. Of course, he could have been BSing, but whether it's true or not, it's an interesting hypothetical situation, whether or not you would allow someone to give you sexual relief if you were in such a situation where you were unable to do it for yourself, but also if the person concerned were of a sexuality contrary to your own beliefs, even though he/she were to be offering the service as a form of medical relief, rather than as a sexual act.
I don,t think I would care what their motivation was, humanitarian vs sexual, I would appreciate the service provided, although I do believe that for the caregiver to offer it in the first place probably means that they will also get some pleasure from it and not just a mechanical act like adjusting your pillow.
Hmm, I most likely would go for it. Even if I was not without arms and legs. If any one wanted to give me a hand job . . . ya I would do that.
I don't want to have any sexual encounter with a male at all. I'm not afraid of anything, I just wouldn't do it.
Look... I don't like mushrooms. When I order a pizza, I don't get mushrooms. When I order pizzas with friends and family, I campaign that at least one of them doesn't have mushrooms. When I get Chinese, I may forget to ask for no mushrooms in the Kung Pao, but if I forget, I'll just pluck the shitake out if I see 'em. I won't throw it away because there's a chance I might ingest a mushroom. When there's a casserole at a potluck, I don't ask if it's made with cream of celery soup, or cream of mushroom, and pass over it if it is. I prefer not to have them, but I'm not a fucking weirdo about it. Now, Pineman has presented a scenario in which you are one sad-sack son of a bitch, with no arms and no legs, and blue balls. You can't get out of bed without help. You can't scratch an itch without help. You can't shit or piss without help, and you need your ass wiped. You have to compromise about everything. You basically can not get anything you want the way you want it... Your dignity is pretty much a thing of the past. But... At least you're not a fucking faggot?
