oh yeah, to flannel... "Women who have self-confidence and are secure in their own strength will find clothes in which they discern their own personalities" - Christian Lacroix don't ask people what to wear. figure it out yourself. If that's not what this thread is about, then listen up. You are very pretty. You will be beautiful the day you realize this and learn to love yourself and quit seeking affirmation. Words like slutty, skanky... they should not apply to you, ever.