I wasn't sure where this should go, so if its the wrong section then sorry. Alright well, Im a 24 year old guy and for a while now have been very curious about trying something with a guy. More specifically though, I want to try giving oral. I started talking to a guy in my area about it and hes obviously up for it (what guy doesnt want a bj lol), but Im just unsure about the whole thing, nervous about it. Im sure someone else here has been in this situation. Those who have, how did it go? Were you satisfied with trying it or did you regret it?
my bf went through this a few years back. after trying it twice, he realized that he wasn't into it at all. he doesnt regret it, cuz if he never did it, he always would have wondered "what if?"
Have to agree with both, make sure your ready but then give it a go or else you'll have that what if. I'm actually in the same boat, just waiting for an opportunity, I think it would be easier with a couple with experience so at least there is some female flesh around.
Just put some Hormel chili with cheese and onions and pretend like you are eating a hot dog, except don't really bite it...
I agree, make sure you are ready for it mentally. I too am waiting for the opportunity as well.. Tho I know I would feel much better about it if I had a girl doing it with me. Thats just me though. Good luck, hope it goes well.
curiosity dont mean gay... giving the oral it's not the hard part (no pun intended) the after, like it's been said, what if you dont feel it was all that good and he just keeps coming back for more, or looks for you when you are with someone else, how would you handle it?? the akwardness may or not be worth it, you decide...
Make sure it is consensual, strip, lie down together and fondle gently. No rushing. You may fantasise about oral, but while fondling you may get other fantasies that are more rewarding to bring to fruition, say whole-body masturbation. Quite a tangle! Oral man-to-man sex generally is referenced as a gay activity, and requires a great deal of trust and control, not just fantasy and come-blow-leave. Just part of a bigger picture of other things to explore on an individual basis.
See personally.. doing that sort of thing would turn me off, as I reallllly am not into guys like that. That would pretty much be noo good for me. I couldn't even kiss a guy, I doubt. Unless it was a snowball. I just like dick and balls. Blowjobs, handjobs, cum and anal (maybe).. yeah. And maybe muscles.. the strength.. the domination.. me being the submissive one.... oh god thats fucking hot. Being told what to do, being man *drool* handled.. a blowjob, deepthroating, sucking on balls, making love to his cock, licking it, getting fucked, the muscles (with tattoos even better), abs and arms, the strength and domination.. okay. Maybe I just realized something about myself. Sorry, got kind of turned on.. hah *gets shy and uncomftorable, runs away and hides*
Well, good on you for 'flicking the switch' on! Hippy Power Rules, OK!? Well, we're all different. That's way too much for me, even if it is 'right up your alley' (sorry for the pun)! I never kiss nor oral. For guys, nothing beats a well-toned male lying flat. I put a pillow under his lower back to show his ribs and highlight abdomen. Next, hover my butt over his penis and gently press/rub anus over and around it while working hands up and down his pubis from belly button and his tackle while he fingers mine — this is where the sensuality is; I love exploring a good pubis!! No penetration: not my thing and ejaculation usually occurs for both of us after speeding up from a "waltz". A little bit of nicely kept hair is a great turn on, pubic hair itself delineating the erogenous zone. Oh—! Now look what you've done! My sex-o-meter is on the rise too!
The key is to simply not try it with a friend, or someone close enough for that to happen with. Just treat it like you would a girl. They like it and maybe you don't, they do some looking- you just have to tell them where to go. Not your fault if you don't want to be with someone for whatever reason. These sort of things should even be considered until afterwards. Just get it done if it's what you want to do and then decide, you may love it and end up in a gay loving relationship- you will never know until afterwards
