Virgo women who loves a Gemini sorry so long

I'm new here, but it seems like people here have great ideas. I have known my gem for about 3 years and we have been dating for about 7 months, I love him so much,and he has told me that he loves me. I feel that he is my first true love, I was married for 7 years to someone I did not love. We have the most passionate sex ever, even if it is not sex and we just snuggle and kiss for a few minutes before we pass out we both seem to be happy. Now here's the deal, I am sorry for the length. for that last few months he has said things like I still can't figure out why I like you so much, or he would say I don;t think of you as a girlfriend, but more like a really good freind. A few months ago we were just talking and out of the blue he says I love you, I looked up at him and it looked like tears were on his face, I didnt say anything about it. then a few weeks after that I did say something and he said I never said that but if I did then I meant the kind of love I have for my friends. The whole time we have been together we have not had a single argument, we tease each other,but in a funny way. the last 2 months he has been introducing me to people as his girlfriend, he is a drummer in a band and he picks me up for every gig, I have seen him flirting a few times but I see the way he looks at me when he is playing, I trust him more then I;ve ever trusted. he pays for everything and always tells me that I should never worry about having to pay him back, even though I secretly do. He says he thinks about me a lot and he worries about me, i dont have a job right now, and am living with my family who really does not want me around. well i guess i should get to the point, I have felt that this is love for awhile now, but have been scared that i will scare him away, so I havent said anything. then the other night we were sitting by the fire, just talking away like always and somehow the convo turned to us, we had been drinking but we definantly were not drunk, i baisically just told him i had been thinking alot but i was scared to talk about it, he asked me if i thought about him before i went ot sleep at night, and in my mind i was thinking yes, but i said nothing, then he says jenny, i love you, he said this about three times before i could say anything, i must have looked like a deer in headlights. finally i couldnt hold it in, and i said i have never felt this way before but i am very sure that i love you john, and i appreciate everything you do for me, i care about you and i want you to be happy, and he looked at me and said i love you too and he gave me a kiss. what scares me is that he will change his mind again, I like to jsut go with the flow, and he does too, i really feel like he loves me but on the other hand i wonder if he said it to get information out of me. I love him so much but i dont want to scare him away. I would like to hear from other gems who have been in love.thanks