My memories, experiences (those things that have happened to me that I do not remember, but which have caused me to change) and my intellect and the manner in which they cross index, and weight one another. or cause one another to be weighted. same is true of everyone, it's just everyone else will give you a prettier less utilitarian answer.
I don't even know. But I'll try to answer as honestly as possible. I am usually quite non-judgemental. I don't hold grudges. I appreciate things, like nature, kind comments and smiles. And I generally am a calm, relaxed person. So those are my good bits. Bad bits: I am too relaxed. Things that should bother me really don't. I have bad time management when it comes to everything except for work. I cannot seem to make plans and keep them. It's like everything I do is spontaneous. It's kind of hard to get to know me. I have pretty bad mood swings, where I'll get really upset/angry for a short period of time.. It must be my way of letting off steam or something. I don't trust people very easily. I dream too much. This isn't really what you wanted.. But it's what I've got.
That's fine :cheers2: Most people I have met identify themselves with their careers, professions, nationality, religion, certain groups, or even race. As for myself, I have no idea also.
Oh I hate that. When you meet folk for the first time and they ask, "so what do you do then?" Meaning, what is your job, your career. These things are so unimportant to me, and I just don't want to be identified or associated with "what I do" to earn a living. Unless I am one of the few lucky people who have a vocation that they actually enjoy, and are really passionate about it.
I have no career.. I would like to do something to help. I am a waitress and uni student.. That doesn't make me who I am. I'm from NZ, I live in Australia, that doesn't make me who I am. I am an agnostic. That doesn't make me who I am either. I don't have any 'groups'. I don't want to attach myself to something, and therefore that thing makes me who I am. Know what I mean?
People think I’m telepathic. I am, slightly - a raised eye-brow can mean a paragraph. What make's me, me? This is a pretty tricky question to answer. I agree with Dave when he says that memories, and experiences incite change. I'm not ashamed of much. I'm not really ashamed of anything - acceptance is a rather large trait of my personality. I have a very relaxed outlook on life. My own experiences in life have prompted me to try and unshackle myself from any self-effacement and melodrama that takes place around me. Like I have already stopped crushing my own opinions, trying to appease other's (for several years, now, actually). Qualities that make determination and ambition tolerable. I believe we all have an essential self, but if you spend everyday chopping up meat on a slab, and selling it by the pound, soon you’ll find you’ve become a butcher, you’re going to have to cut right though to the bare bone’s of your own character in the hope of finding out who you really are. Which bloody hurts, at times. I have a pretty idiosyncratic taste. I tend to say what's on my mind; my subconscious is very close to the surface. I ask allot of silly questions too. I get allot of people say that I am allot more mature than most 18 (nearly 19) year olds, and I am quite empathetic - Guess it's true, but get to know me a little better and you'd see I gripe about people a fair bit. I love bingo, and quiz nights too. I dont conform to any subcultures; I tend to mix my garb up a bit... and I might be digressing? I do that allot too.
imm a bit shy, but once u get to know me i wont stop talkin, and i talk about really random things too.. itl take a while till im myself 100% around u though, im flirtatious <- which isnt a good thing, can get me in trouble but its just my personality!! i love love , its takes a while to earn my trust, i did trust people easily before, but i've learned from my mistakes and im more weary of people now.. im mostly always in a good mood, or at least neutral i dont really got in bad moods for no reason... make me laugh when im in a bad mood and itl be gone im too layed back my granny, me ma and me auntie always say "if you were any more layed back you'd be lyin down" , or "if you were any more relaxed you'd be asleep", it works in both ways, good and bad... i care alot about people, im a very carin person, and sensitive too! so dont break my heart i love goin out, dancing havin fun with my friends.. its just the best when i think of more il post.. but thats enough for now
Well, my most fantastic quality is the fact that I'm far too lazy to sit and analyze myself. It comes and goes. Apparently, I'm also wishy washy, because this feeling may change later.
I don't like to be the center of attention, but I do like getting attention. I'm fairly quiet around people I don't know, because I don't know what to talk about. Being around people constantly drains me of energy, and I need to be alone often. I have goals and work pretty hard, and am independent to an extent. I am fairly empathetic with people I know, but don't care much about people I don't know at all. I'm also very opinionated and like to question what I'm told quite often. I could keep going, but I won't.