i dont think a man needs to hit a woman back in order to defend himself. all he has to do is lift her up and place her in a different room. men hitting women is trashy ghetto and unnecessary, WHATEVER the reason. as much as i dont think its right either way, i do not believe that men should be able to hit a woman back.
i had a friend that dated a girl that was VERY abusive. my boyfriend and 3 of his friends had to hold this girl back after she straight up attacked this guy. theres physically no way he could have picked her up and moved her without getting serious injuries. he didnt hit her back, but i would have if i were him and i'd encourage a man to straight up smack a bitch in that situation
I don't think it's wrong if a woman hit the man first, for the man to hit back...or vice versa. still, it isn't proving anything, and two wrongs don't make a right. If I was hit by a man, I wouldn't hit back, because violence isn't my style, and I'd just simply leave the douchebag. edit: but if he hit me more than once, and I didn't have the opportunity to just leave because I'm getting my ass beat... well yeah, I'd hit back, and I'd hope any guy in that position, being beat by a female, would defend himself too. to any guy out there who would take abuse from a woman in the first place... pathetic! and same to girls who would take abuse from a guy. fuckin' get rid of um!
that's quite sexist... I don't think anyone should be hitting anyone...but that goes for everyone, not just men, and not just females... and I think EVERYONE should have the right to defend themselves...
You guys dont understand the strength a man has and the strength a woman has...unless shes beefy.. when a girl hits a guy, is she gonna leave a bruise or black eye? highly not. but a man hitting a woman can do way more damage than expected.
if she hits him once.. he should walk away If she keeps coming .. he should try and contain her he should never hit her though..imho
right, but then maybe she shouldn't be hitting him if she doesn't want to get hurt. and she's probably stupid if she's 5'2, 90 pounds and going after a 180 lb. muscley guy, if we're going to get on the subject of who can do more damage and such. and it's that attitude, that a man can't under ANY circumstances hit a woman, that makes some women think that they can get away with it. bitch needs to either check herself, or accept a hit in return. that's ridiculous if a woman thinks she can just get away with that kind of behavior.
^ i agree but realistically. only dumb ass broads think that. They deserve it if the guy is warning them 5 times to stop, just grab them and shake em up a bit. scare em. I know on my life I would NEVER hit a man not because I know they cant hit me back but why would I? sure if they did a dick thing to me, they deserve a whack and if they wanna hit me, go for it, Im usually tough unless the guy is a boxer lol then id probably just back talk him and walk away
Put it this way. I was hit once by a girl and that was when still in school. 5 mins after it was the girl apologizeing for hitting the wrong person cause she didn't actually know who to blame ... Needless to say I didn't hit back and just brushed her off. However this was the going thing back then in our school until a girl went ahead and hit the wrong guy to provoke something. Needless to say she didn't look very well afterwards, unless she liked the color red.. Then the school decided to finally start being stricter in watch on this. Woman Say theres words that can provoke them hitting someone. But yet want to stand a firm belief that there are no words that provoke a guy to hit someone. Thats false. If you know someone that well, there will always be the ability to "push thier buttons" per say that triggers rage as a result. Its up to both, be it man or woman to be able to stand there and take it with out resorting to physical attacks. I do not believe anyone has the free reign to attack another, and expect no response.
I don't think it's sexist. It's the way I was raised. A man just doesn't hit a woman. I never said anyone should be hitting anyone. That was not the original question. The question is should a man hit a woman? No. They should not.
Women hitting men in most circumstances is like the "Don't feed the bears" signs, don't antagonize the bigger animal
anybody hitting anyone else is trashy. In Colorado, if two women live together or have a relationship and one hits the other it is domestic abuse. Same for two men, of course. But we know the lion's share of reported abuse is males hitting females, although prosecution of females hitting males is increasing. Now, if I totally lost it and struck out at one of my male partners, I rather expect that a) I'm not likely to do much damage as I never fought as a kid; and b) my one partner would simply hold me and ask what the $&%$&#I thought I was doing. He's far stronger than I am, although he points out I seem to be catching up (we work a physical job together fairly often). He could probably pull the hand-on-forehead-and-hold-her-off bit. He's got height on me. My other partner could also take me down easily, but would be far more offended at the action.
ahem, I think we might be getting a bit off topic. I thought I had made it clear; in the event of a one on one fight; I'm a chick and I love sparring with my guy friends. Wouldn't be much fun if they didn't fight back...
Relief her of a few teeth, and then give her a sponge to clean up her mess... in a dire situation of course. People seem to be underestimating women sure they are smaller than men but they are still capable of hurting people, also when you are being attacked you don't think of the "proper" thing to do, you do what the animal inside you tells you to do.
its the way you were raised. because you were told so, you don't question it. It IS sexist. a woman can hit a man but "a man JUST DOESN'T hit a woman"? how biased is that?
Well women couldn't take a hit as well as I could generally. I would subdue her before hitting her. However, if a womam hit my mom, I would knock the hell out of her.