When we fight hurtfull things get said and then we end up not speaking..its been almost two days now..and i shouldnt be the one to try to talk...nothing seems to get resolved...silence and then we will somehow eventually talk again but no appologies...I hate sitting home in this tension and I keep hoping it will get better or we will find a way to communicate..we can not talk without it esculating into a fight....
Question would be, Whats more in important? Keeping the Stance on the subject or Breaking the tension ?
I would say that if you can't talk without arguing, it's not much of a relationship. It doesn't/shouldn't matter who talks first.
I tottaly understand where your coming from. at first yea someone is more hurt or more mad than the other, but if you have tried or he tried and nothing was done and more then 2 days go on with tension then i believe there is no enough CONNECTION AND COMMUNICATION.