Tips on dealing with fighting

Discussion in 'Relationships' started by cattiecat, Aug 1, 2009.

  1. cattiecat

    cattiecat Member

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    When we fight hurtfull things get said and then we end up not speaking..its been almost two days now..and i shouldnt be the one to try to talk...nothing seems to get resolved...silence and then we will somehow eventually talk again but no appologies...I hate sitting home in this tension and I keep hoping it will get better or we will find a way to communicate..we can not talk without it esculating into a fight....
     
  2. Istar

    Istar Member

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    Question would be, Whats more in important? Keeping the Stance on the subject or Breaking the tension ?
     
  3. Daughteroferos

    Daughteroferos Member

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    I would say that if you can't talk without arguing, it's not much of a relationship. It doesn't/shouldn't matter who talks first.
     
  4. Sweetleaf63

    Sweetleaf63 Senior Member

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    I tottaly understand where your coming from.
    at first yea someone is more hurt or more mad than the other,
    but if you have tried or he tried and nothing was done
    and more then 2 days go on with tension
    then i believe there is no enough CONNECTION AND COMMUNICATION.
     

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