I've found that after 10 years of marriage I masturbate more now than I did before I was married. I whacked off a bunch when I was in high school and college but now I find that I do it even more. Any chance I get to have a little privacy I'm whacking away. My favorite place is to go down stair to my shop in the garage, drop my pants to my ankles and whack off quick on the floor and then wipe off and go back up stairs. Anyone else find this to be true?
This is very true. After a guy has been married for a while, his wife's fucking cannot keep up with his need to get off and he goes back to singing solo. For me it was only a few months before I was back to jacking-off. And the problem is getting the privacy we need, since most wives would be threatened to know their husbands are fucking their own hands instead of waiting for a chance at her pussy! I believe I am right in guessing that for men who have been married for more than a year, they probably jack-off several times for each time they fuck their wives.
Oh I know. There's nothin worse then wantin to give your carrot a good waxing but the old ball n chain won't give you the time or space.
Even though my wife and I have always had a good sex life, I have tossed off at least 5 or 6 times a week throughout our 30 year marriage. I look at it this way... It was fun to do before I was married, so why quit a good thing. I will admit, I did it less frequently the year before and ~two years after our wedding because at that time we were fucking two or more times a day. As for privacy, I guess I am lucky. I am self-employed and work out of our home and my wife has a steady day job, so I have plenty of time to wank. I just have to make sure I don't leave a mess on the floor or porn up on the computer!
Ask your wife to masturbate with you! Really. There's no sight in the universe more beautiful than an attractive woman masturbating. You already masturbate, and enjoy it, but the reason for most of us joining this forum is to enhance, feed, and cultivate our masturbation addictions. Right? Of course, your wives may be hopeless prudes -but how do you know if you don't ask? And your wives more than likely masturbate, even if they don't admit it. And the task may fall completely into your hands, as usual, to light her fire! In fact, we shyly refused to delve into the subject, until we made the inevitable discovery of each other's masturbation addictions during a two week vacation together. And we've been hooked ever since. You and your wife would be required to let your guard down, so to speak, to fully enjoy the experience. But isn't that what's love and erotica is all about? After masturbating together, we usually clean each other up with delicious oral sex, so your wives needn't feel completely "cheated" by mutual masturbation sessions. And only masturbation can truly satisfy one's wild, adulterous side. The custom of ancient kings, having harems of hundreds of beautiful women, is testimony to the futility of finding erotic satisfaction in the real world. Besides, mutual masturbation, more correctly "tandem" masturbation (where both refrain from touching each other until both orgasm), is a fun and unbelievably decadent form of lovemaking. In fact, two people masturbating together constitutes an orgy! Try it! And let us know if it works for both of you. hugs, HotCaliforniaCouple
Masturbation is so natural. I worry about those people that give it up after marriage. They must be like ticking time bombs.
My wife and I have a good sex life, but we both still masturbate. I've done it 2-3 times a day since I was 13 because I enjoy it. Why would I stop? She does it because can get off 4-8 times when she masturbates. We don't hide it. We live out in the country and I've watched her do it while she was catching some rays while lying on a lawn chair several times. She has seen me any number of times, too. No big deal. On long boring drives the one who isn't driving usually winds up doing it (and yes we often switch off the driving so the other can get a chance).
I love it too. The wife don't mind me doing it neither which is a good thing too. She'd be cleaning the house whilst i'm on the bed buffing the banana. She has even asked me to call her when its time to cum so she suck me off the last minute or two.
If it's true that couples have more sex in the first year than in all the time afterwards, then I'm sure the level of masturbation will increase. If you are able to be open enough to do it in each other's company then you should. The only woman I've been with who felt comfortable enough to gave me a lasting happy memory.
