Do you know Nikki Sixx? Because that would really work out nicely for me if you did. Then maybe I could give you some advice.
Yes, it can be done. Make sure you use plenty of lube. But there is more. First, the right position. The missionary position is best. Lady on her back (naturally). One leg flat and one leg bent with her knee near her shoulder. Man on top, one arm around her bent knee. Easy penetration, the anus is relaxed. I've done it a couple of times that way and it was too easy for both of us. I wrote this position it into an erotic story I published and got feedback from two ladies who had problems with anal but now do 'anal all the time' cause they really enjoy this positiion. Second, and just as important. Make sure the lady is aroused. Really, really aroused. Those of us who love giving our ladies lots of pleasure and orgasms will really enjoy this bit. The hotter the lady is, the better Finally, if the lady is tense and nervous and thinks it is going to hurt, it will. On the other hand, if she understands that the right position and the right arousal will enable an easy introduction to anal sex, then half the battle is won. Anal is no the be all and end all of sex. But it has different sensations and it is very intimate. It is an interesting variation and if done right can be really enjoyable for both partners.
What happened to the old confused face? I'm confused, but I look angry! I don't understand! *resume on topic discussion*
if you have a big penis you better not shove it all in my ass thats for sure... youch!!! you could inch it most definitely
I agree with lots of lube and making sure she is very, very turned on.. I also add that you need to sequentially dilate up with something smaller than his cock first. Maybe a few smaller toys...which will get you to that halfway stage and much more receptive to his member...
if it hurts wen hes puttinit in that means ur not relaxed enough so try playin with ur clit vigourously while hes easing it in that always helps alot for me
For the first times I'd suggest trying the woman on top, so she can control it. But then I agree with the missionary position suggestion. To relax a bit, try clenching your anus for a few seconds, then relaxing, and you'll relax a lot more than you could before. Also, once the head of his penis is inside, just wait, for several minutes if neccessary. And relax completely. Masturbating at this point does help quite a bit. Then if you feel ok then he can try to get some more in. He shouldn't start thrusting for a while, but more like holding still at a certain depth. good luck!
Wow, thanks for this me and the bf have been trying to do it doggy, and it hasn't been working. So we will try this next time, thankyou!! And thanks for the being-reallyreally-horny tip too
If anal sex hurts you're doing it wrong. A bit of sting on the initial penetration is normal. If it hurts more it's a sign that your body is telling you to stop.Read up on the subject before you harm yourself! Anal sex can be painless even if the giving partner is well endoved. Find Tristan Taormino's Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex for Women. There is a book and a video (vid doesn't have 'for women' in the title). Both are easy to find on the net. Try RS. Anus needs to be relaxed and lubricated. Good DVD titled "Anal Massage for Relaxation and Pleasure" shows how do it. It's easy to find through torrent.
we've yet to try it. she likes the idea cuz she has an amazing butt . i'm not a freak show but i'm a hair under 8 inches and maybe a little thicker than average. we're both a little antsy but i know in porn(dudes that are bigger and probably thicker) fuck girls hard up the ass. i think you just have to start slow. start off w/a afinger or thumb.
