22 Same here. I wanted to try it out see if I liked it. I have to be real turned on to enjoy it to the fullest, but if I'm not then it's usually out before he gets to thrust
First I would like to congratulate you on being a woman and enough to at least try anal out, that's and open mindedness few women share. I would like to ask in both situations, did the guy properly warm you up. I don't mean just using lube and things like that. I mean did he eat your ass and get you nice and relaxed? I have found rimming does wonders for improving anal sex. Go from the tongue to fingers or small toys. I would suggest you try a butt plug, a small one to get you relaxed, and have it in there during vaginal penetration, and when you are relaxed and really excited, have him replace the butt plug with his cock. That should DRAMATICALLY help reduce pain, if pain is a problem. If you have anal, and it doesn't hurt, but you are still not into it, then that means anal was done right, but you just were not into it, and that's fine, it's not for everybody. If there was pain, something went wrong.
This might be the proper place to point out to the author of the initial question that the assumption that all women would suggest anal experimentation is really quite false; as well as pointing out to 3XAce that she can be open minded as hell, open to many sexual experiences and woman enough to handle them all, but not consider anal penetration as sexual - and be correct. C'mon gang, it is an expression of male sexuality (as is anything which causes an orgasm (ie. coke bottle, cow's ass, other male mouth.) But it is a bit of a stretch to refer to it as a form of female sexuality, as there is nothing in the female anus or colon which responds to sexual stimulation. For some women the vibrations into the nearby clitoral extension does provide sexual stimulation and relief. The act however is strictly a male comfort act. Because of the proximaty of the prostate gland, it is mutually satisfying in the context of gay sex also (male to male.) The excitement of dealing with scatatological consequences may help some women find pleasure in the act, as well as in lesbian strapon form. But let's get one thing straight: there is no reasonable expectation of a woman's desire or favor for the act of so-called anal 'sex.' It is merely another male sexual practice demanded for his personal satisfaction. Don't be fooled kids, most women won't be taken in and will look elsewhere for true sexual stimulation and satisfaction. Without the benefit of orgasm, shit just ain't worth it!
to be fair, half of this forum is supposedly dedicated to anal sex. "The joys of oral and anal sex" tends to imply that the people looking at these threads are more oral or anal enthusiasts than the average Joe Missionary. it would be different if the guy were going to super markets and polling random women about when their first time asking for it was with the brazen assumption that they're all good eggs
Really!? I wonder why my girls says she has her hardest orgasms from anal!? Not to mention she cums quicker from it than vaginal. And trust me, I know she's not faking, no women could voluntarily spasm their anus the way my girl does when she cums. Yes I agree, most women aren't into anal, but that doesn't mean they can't enjoy it. I am vegetarian, most people would hate it, but I love it. I enjoy something most people would hate, so why can't anal be the same way? One mans pleasure is another man's poison. And my girl suggested anal, not me, so you can throw the male chauvinist thing out the window. I don't force things on women, but exposing them to something they may not have otherwise tried is something I do. I exposed people to vegan food who hate eating vegetables, and guess what, after trying it they realized, THEY ACTUALLY LIKED IT! Sometimes we have to get past social paradigms that something is weird to actually enjoy it, even if it's way outside social norms. If anal is not your thing, that's fine, but don't insult other people who enjoy it. The thing is, you don't know until you try, right!? Did you know paralyzed people can have orgasms!? There is no physical or anatomical reason for this, yet it still occurs, you know why, ORGASMS ARE MENTAL!!!!!! The ultimate erogenous zone is the not the clit, g-spot, penis, testicles, prostate, or anus; the mind the the be all and end of erogenous zones, you properly stimulate that, and there is no stopping the pleasure that follows. Even if my dick was completely removed I could still orgasm, albeit it would take a different kind of stimulation, but it's quite possible.
tried it sumtime last year didn like it tried it a couple months ago n actually liked it now its a frequent request of mine my lovers still are in aww how much i ask for it i love anal sex lol..........
nothing wrong with anal sex. i would expect anal sex at least on occasion even if my woman wasnt that into. on occasion she can do it for me, i would expect, considering i love it so much. i think thats pretty fair. if they love it even better. nothing wrong with experimenting with but plugs and crazy anal shit like that, me and my ex did. its naughty, dirty and hot. some people just have a complex.... lol thats why they never want to try anal and blah blah....
