I wish guys didn't make negative comments

It always hurts my feelings when I hear guys talking about how much they hate protruding labia. They always say it looks "used" and "loose" and "droopy" and other demeaning terms. Don't guys realize that girls are born that way? It's not like copious amounts of sex cause your labia to protrude. I remember noticing mine when I was ten.

Granted I've never had a guy make any kind of negative comment about my genitals, but I'm still scared of it. I'm 18 and while I haven't come across many immature sex partners, most guys my age find it gross from what they say in conversation. Every time I let a new guy see my lady parts, I get really nervous that he'll think it's gross because he's probably seen pretty tucked in vulvas. =/

 

A lot of women make fun of or think foreskin is gross. My first girlfriend I dated when I was 14 had the same thing. Her lips were longer. Didn't stop me from doing anything with her, because I loved her. I've also known a lot of guys who like that and find it very attractive. It just depends on the person so don't ever feel self-conscious about it. The world today is obsessed with looking a certain way. Too much hair on a guy is gross, a hairy vagina is gross, small penis' are embarassing, hair line, finger nails, teeth, etc. You can change those things but why bother? Anytime I've ever loved a girl it wasn't necessarily because they were 'better' than the others, it was for what made them different from the others. The imperfections in life are the best things. And besides, any guy who goes through life making fun of or laughing at womens genitalia is going to be going through life very sad, very lonely, and very horny.

 

That's the way to tell it! In the end none of us are perfect. Worrying about our bodies will only push the people we want away.
By the time they get to see your labia they are probably not caring what it looks like to be honest.

 

I remember the first time my wife let me see her pussy. She was scared of what I'd think because she has a flower growing in the valley. I just got a big smile on my face. I wouldn't have quit seeing her if she didn't have that, but I was really pleased that she did.

I think the perfect vulva has inner labia that protrude 1/2 to 1 inch beyond the outer labia when the girl's standing with her legs slightly apart...and the perfect clit is approximately the size of a pencil eraser...though bigger would be no disappointment.

 

And if they do, they weren't worth the effort to begin with.

 

What do you mean by this?

 

Yeah, I hate it when I walk in on a conversation and all the guys are talking about how much they hate protruding labia.

 

mine are like wings

 

Well, the outer labia would form the valley...and the inner labia would be the flower growing out of the valley...I don't know...extemporaneous metaphor...

 

No .... that's good. I like it.

 

No guy has really given any inkling of not liking my vagina when we get down to it. One time I was having casual sex and the guy said he's never seen a girl with such a large clit. I asked him if he thought it was weird and he said, no it's sexy as hell. That's the only comment that's ever been made about my pussy. And guys always seem to like going down on me.

It's just I get so worried. If so many of them go on and on in conversation about how ugly long labia are, I'm bound to come across one of these assholes someday.

I guess I'm just really nervous about sex because in a few days I'll be doing it with this guy I've wanted for many years. He's stunningly hot and I don't want to disappoint him with my body.

 

Narco -- they're just putting down women on a sensitive subject as a form of male bonding. It's like getting even for all the small-penis jokes that men suppose women make...(though I've never heard one-- except for that girl who had the "Don't want no short dick man" song in the early 90s (but I admit I never saw a single episode of Sex in the City.))

Just be confident. No matter what, there is nothing sexier than confidence. You know that.

 

FYI how to tell if a guy's an idiot: if he ridicules womens genitals because they're big or long or droopy or different in any way than the "sacred norm". I personally think they're an awesome turn on. Pay no attention to those morons.

 

just like a couple of lady friends say about 4skin, "there's more to play with, tongue, and suck!" That goes for me with outstanding labiae. The more to play with, the happier I am.

 

I'm sorry but I have never been in a conversation with guys bad mouthing vagina maybe a host for a vagina but never the vagina itself. Well never about looks, if that puss stinks it's gonna be talked about but that's different.

 

Well that's good then. Maybe they were confused and thought copious amounts of sex made that happen lmao. I would have until I read this thread. I always thought those were the used & abused pussy's.

Now i'm truly enlightened

Yeah lmao. aint that the truth. make sure that shits douched up and i'm sure nobody will care

 

not me! I like the way they stretch when you are pulling out, almost hugging you! Very nice!

 

Protruding labia are lovely. There is just so much more to love, lick and suck There are many men who love large labia, see:-

ht*p://www.large-labia-productions.com

If this is removed, Google "large labia".

 

Oh man he's coming over in 2 hours. jhghkhkhkhjkh

 

BE CONFIDENT! BE STRONG!

You got this shit. He'll do whatever you say.