has an ex ever told you that you were a great boyfriend/girlfriend? I mean, it seems ppl must hear, you were a horrible bf/gf (since it is from an ex), but not great so much... how'd that make you feel? just some things swimming around in my head...
Only when they're begging for me to take them back... .... which has never really happened..... But my last boyfriend did compliment me a lot... reassurance, really, because I knew I was a kick ass girlfriend and he never really appreciated it.
yes that counts doesn't it feel good to get complimented? hopefully that quote worked ^ anyway! I hate undeserving, unappreciative boyfriends... arghh... good thing he finally got his senses and told you how kick ass you are
It does feel good. I actually blushed when he said it...it was kinda cute because he said it in that "I'm too manly to say things like this" voice...lol
As I'm generally the breaker-upper, when I hear such things I tend to feel guilty and a little embarassed. But with the relationships where I was dumped, when someone says something like that I can't help thinking, "You're the ass who won't let it work."
my forst love is now my best friend, his always telling me i was a great g.f, but he messed tht one up and itsthe biggest regret of his life, the next guy hit me and wen i dumped him he tried 2 o.d and his always writtin poetry about how i was a good g.f and how he messed it up.... yeah then it repeats alot, its nice but its like if i was so good,why mess it up? hmm
It's so funny how they make you feel like your gods gift to the earth untill you get pissed at them for something and all of a sudden your the worst girlfriend ever. Men are soooo good at turning things around on us.
I've heard that before from an ex. Of course, at the time, things weren't so "great". But after we both realized that a relationship between us wouldn't work, we found common ground and ironed things out. After you spend some time away from a situation and start to look at it rationally, things don't seem too bad. Sometimes it just wasn't meant to be. Honestly, it made me feel good. I think if a person tells you that and they're not just hanging on to the past with hopes of a renewed relationship, then it shows some maturity and heart. Much better than trying to drag someone's name through the mud.
I agree with you totally... the entire thing! (well the things i kept in the quote, the other were only relevant to your particular situation) anyway, thanks for replying to my question
Most of my ex's, if anyone asks, would say that I was a good girlfriend. Anytime that a boyfriend and I have broken up, it was always mutual. Wrong timing, feelings weren't there, etc. It makes me feel good to have ex's tell me. Any new guy wanting a relationship with me...I have good references. *Laughs*
Most of my exes still want me back (well, they say they do)... They don't realize what a good thing they have, until it's gone. But, I'm sure that if I was to get back together with them, nothing would be different; it would be the same old screwed up patterns that made me break up with them to begin with. Oh well...
hello lynsey. you are right ,but think how fucked up the xboy friend is when he finds out he can be dun with out, its like a kick up the guileys) peace lol.
i had only one other bf besides my bf now, and we broke up mutually, i began to break up with him, and he pretty much said he was gonna but felt bad too...lol but he kept going on, and still does, saying that i was the best gf he ever had...we broke up mostly cus neither of us have cars yet and we live in other towns and never saw each other, but we never talked on the phone either...lack of comunication...plus i sorta fell for my bf now hehe but anyway...yea, he always tells me how i was the best. i mean, i was so nice to him lol giving is my nature hehe...he still sleeps with the blanket i gave him.... it just makes me laugh hahahhaaa
it made me feel good cause its not often you break up with someone and they still wanna be friends after that...
It should make you feel good that they ar e still on good terms with you and are man enough to admit that jsut because you broke up does not mean you are a piece of crap but that you contributed to their life in a positive way...I think that shows good ego of a man...to woman. to break up and still be friends about it. I think this shows a lot about a person..that you have healthy relationships based on the fact tha tyou picked a guy who would respect you in the end.
