Girls who don't like recieving head

3 of the 6 woman i've bedded didn't want to recieve oral, two of those 3 enjoyed giving.. I know the numbers are too low to be accurate but WTF!
i'm usually better with my tongue then my damn dick!
except the last girl I was with.. she was pretty tight, and I gave a female multiple orgasms for the first time.. but w/o oral.

 

My current gf does not enjoy oral sex very much. I love to give and she sometimes lets me but it always ends up with her squirming away because she is too sensitive or something. I wasn't sure how common it was because all of the other 4-5 girls I have gone down on have totally loved it.

Weird.

 

My experience is that girls are just as, if not more so, self conscious about their genitals than we guys are. That was the problem my fiance had, but she "came" around.

 

Maybe she hasn't been with a guy yet who is any good at it. The skill comes more natually to women.

 

usually girls who dont enjoy getting oral are insecure with their sexuality. the only girls i have ever known to dislike receiving head either had a partner who was not good at it, or they were not that adventurous and did not enjoy sexual activity much to begin with. if you are with a girl who does not like getting head, the best way to address the issue is to make her feel safe and to trust you. tell her that you want her to feel the same pleasure that she gives you. let her give you instructions on what feels good and what doesn't. ask her if it feels good. this should open her up a little bit more.

 

I should have mentioned earlier that some women are prone to getting bacterial infections from saliva. If she gets on top in the 69 position for you to lick her clit, everything will run down hill and nothing will go in her vagina, so no infection.

 

I know a lot of girls that don't like it. It's weird. One of my friends says that she mainly doesn't like it because she hasn't had anyone perform it really well. Both of the guys that have gone down on her weren't very good. And she thinks it's sort of gross, which I don't get. Another one of my friends says she is really self conscious and would have sex with a guy before letting him eat her pussy. And she doesn't like it that much either.

 

I don't enjoy it.

 

Nothin wrong with it. I am a guy who doesnt like BJs. It happens.

 

I had one lady friend tell me that she didn't like her bf going down on her because then she'd be obligated to return the favor. I guess she hated giving blowjobs more than she enjoyed getting licked and sucked.

 

I wish I could enjoy it. I know I could again, but an ex once pinned me down and had his way with me. I pushed his head away from between my legs and said no, but he did it anyway. It was completely invasive and upsetting (and pretty fucked up since I cried the whole way through), and I think in a way I don't like it now because I like having the control of being able to say no. Sometimes I'm so hot for my boyfriend and incredibly calm that I can love and enjoy it. Othertimes, I relate it to how much I hate what this other guy did to me. Another worry is that he has full view of me and it's somewhat an uncomfortable feeling since I do have issues with my probably-completely-average-looking body. I want to learn to love receiving oral as much as I already love giving it and I will when I can get over these issues.

 

And the book says we might be through with the past, but the past ain't through with us.

For most people, it gets better with age. I haven't known anyone over 30 who didn't love receiving some head. I know I had a hard time with it, especially in my late teens and early 20s. For me, it was a self-esteem issue. I was ok with her getting a good look at me, and I knew I was clean, and I knew that she wouldn't be doing it if I just tasted nasty or something...but I didn't feel that I had the right to receive-- just receive, not share -- pleasure from another person. I didn't feel worthy of it.

Someone who really enjoys doing it...male or female (and I know because I've received from some women who really get into it, and because I have always really got into giving it) will make it seem like an act of worship. They'll treat their lover's genitals as if they were avatars of universal powers of fertility and life (which, I believe, they are), and as such, they take those parts into their mouths as an act of love and appreciation, not just of the person those parts are attached to, but of sex and vitality and life itself. And it's a humbling and proud thing to be that, to represent that to someone, and to receive that worship and to become that symbol of such vast power.

Oral sex, giving and receiving, can be a deeply spiritual experience offering tremendous opportunities for growth and inner peace and acceptance.

 

I just find it doesn't offer enough sensation.

 

It actually looks to me like the men in porn films don't know what they are doing at all when they go down on the women.It's a gift to a women to do it right--for maximum pleasure.

 

I enjoyed getting licked when I was younger more, I still enjoy it but I don't like stuble. I also make sure to not let him go down there unless it's been a good time since we've had sex, shower, shave all that good stuff. I think I'm starting to do other things and letting him taste me has taken a back seat.

 

we should only do what we enjoy and feel comfortable with. sorry about your experience

 

i can relate to ur gf
its hard for me to get oral
im very sensitive down there
my lovers usually need to tie me down (yes bondage)
and omg i have the most powerful orgasims in my life wen they do that