is this too much info

Did you get put in an oven?

 

nah, i sat too close to the lamp :/

 

Well this kind of thing happened to me. Me and my ex were on a break and i was pissed so i crammed in as many girls as i could lol.
I told her about all of them when we got back together and now shes insecure thinking i'm gonna go off with a blast from the past.

 

So no i wouldnt tell him or he will be on your back all the while.

 

sg_girl, more power to you that you're in a situation to do that. I've been with the same woman my whole life, i absolutely lover her to the end of the earth.

On the flip side, i wish for a small period of time in my life that I could have a whole bunch of partners and experience that to get some urges and come back to reality, but i'm afraid life can't work like that for me.

And there's too much to risk to mess around, unless i could trust someone to keep it secret forever, which i think noone can. Anyone taking applications, haha j/k.

Anway, good luck!

 

finaly someone i can relate to on the multiplelovers part lol
and i have now told only 2 out of the 4
so they now now
and one is ok with it
and the other one said he has to think about it

 

if given the chance to cheat an ur partner will never find out , would u do it?


i always thought ppl said that as a hypothetical question
but i dont think many ppl will do that
they will feel guilty or something and chicken out
i think
im not shure if other ppl have done it

 

on one of our breaks i invited my xbf to a friend gathering (he had a car n i needed a ride thats the only reason i invited him)
and his friends told him my x was there
haha needless to say every time he got a little inseure about me or "us"
he would bring hiim up
and ask if im messin with him

 

Good for you! That took guts, but it was the right thing to do. Only 2 to go!

When it's done, you can get your nuts without the hassle and worry.

 

I wouldn't. However, if my wife tells me it's alright, I'll do it. She knows this. Very early in our relationship, she told me to go to a pro when she would be out of town. (This was in a country where that's legal and relatively safe.) She was trying to be nice, and didn't think I'd actually do it. But I did. I knew she would be disappointed, because I knew she wasn't being completely honest with me about her feelings, so I just went and got a handjob. I felt so out-of-place with another woman that I couldn't even cum. So, I let her work out her biceps for 10 mins or so and paid her and left.

I told my wife, who was my girlfriend at the time. And since then, she knows her dog is on a leash. As long as she keeps me on that leash, I'm a good dog. But if she unhooks it from my collar, I WILL run all over the neighborhood.

I have come to accept the fact that she will never be happy with anything but total monogamy. For me, I'd love for us to swing. But I won't do anything without her permission. I can't risk losing her. Not now, or ever again.

 

seems like you really love ur wife lol

and yeah it took me a while to say it
but yup i got 2 more to go

 

How do you feel about having told them?

 

kinda wierd
it was sortta "my little secret"
but now its out...well only wit 2 of them
but atleast now i know im bein completely honest with them
thats kinda good i guess


i gotta tell the other two now

 

Yep. Good luck!

Once it's all out in the open and everyone's honest and informed and consenting, it will be like a huge weight off your shoulders.

 

yup im kinda lookin foward to that

 

I don't think i could ever do it in my heart to cheat, it's not my style, but i sure could dream!!! Wow those are some hot dreams.

What's interesting for me, is there any women that would actually be with a guy who was cheating and be ok with it, not raise any issues and keep it completly quiet?

 

sg girl:

Would you ever participate in something like that if you were in a more serious relationship if noone would ever find out? I find it takes alot of guts!

 

i dont think ill cheat on someone knowing they wouldnt find out
i thought i could do that but i ended up fessing up cause i felt guilty

that will never happen with a female
i think girls r know for starting arguments for like something he might have done months ago
i want to meet a chick who will keep hush hush about it

 

Yeah, how did that go?

Why? What would you do with her?

 

n i just wanna know wat the hell is goin on in her mind that she wouldnt bring up wat her bf did.....i think thats wierd