what options do I have?

they only suck because you don't want to make any personal sacrifices (aka growing up)

the only thing that sucks about this thread is your attitude.

 

no, they all suck because each one has a pretty bad downside to it.

 

This thread should be locked!

 

thats life dude...grow up...you cant get your way all the time, youre not a kid anymore

 

but am still clearly treated that way what with the searching and everything else

 

what would i do?? take one of those 400 dollar paychecks and go to wally world and buy a tent and a cheap ass bike and find someplace whithin 10 miles or so of where i work to set up a hobo camp. work the rest of the summer and save every penny other than for food.

go to college rent a room somewhere with the money i saved and get a job there.. thats what i would do,but then i left home at 15.. so i dunno what it must be like at 19 and not be able to figure out something so simple..

and dont say there is nowhere within a bike ride of where you work that ya couldnt set up a camp.. cause thats bullshit even if it was downtown chicago.

 

well maybe you deserve to be treated like a little kid cause youre acting like one...

 

having your dad drive you to your job has a downside to it in that he might hit something, and you go flying through the windshield


or is that a downside? i don't know

EVERYTHING is going to have a negative if you look at it in such ways. you have to choose what is right for you. stop bitching about it to us, because we gave you good advice (and you tell us all to fuck off because it SUCKS in your mind - in which case, fuck you too buddy) and that is all you asked us to do.

go be a whiny bitch in Random Thoughts

pardon my swearing

 

Its your prerogative if you don't want to be treated like a kid.


Its the golden rule' Treat others as you would like to be treated.


And I can tell you this RIGHT NOW.

You still act like a kid.

My advice -

Grow up, stop pitying yourself, only YOU can take action to get yourself out of this situation, your mom, your dad, your boss isn't gonna be mollycoddling you on your way out the door... They're gonna kick you in the ass while yelling GET THE FUCK OUT OF HERE!


Your destiny is what you make it, nobody else can shape it for you.


Also, THIS THREAD SHOULD BE LOCKED!

 

no having my dad drive me to my job has the downside that i can't hang out with my friends.

setting up camp somewhere has the same problem, plus the risk that someone will find out and get pissed off or something.

etc, etc. all of them have issues.

 

Stop being a negative nancy!



lol, I love these kinds of threads.



But I still think it should be locked.

 

your lack in understanding further reinforces the thought that you really are an idiot....and your attempt in finding the real downside to your dad driving you to work made me laugh...you really are just whining to hear yourself whine at this point

i agree...lock the thread - or at least stop posting in here. if he wants to complain to an empty thread, so be it.

 

god the youth of this generation are such pussies.. no offense to those of you who aren't..

 

It would be simpler to lock the thread, as most people can't refrain from something this delicious.

 

both are qfFUCKINGt


...i just hope i'm not a pussy that HHB was giving no offense to ...

 

so you legitimately think staying here and just going along with it at the expense of losing my friends is a good choice? because i would very much disagree with that.

 

are your friends going to abandon you because you have somewhat of a spine for 4 weeks?

if you have to think about it, they probably aren't your friends anyways

 

Lol, he give me negative rep!



I think everyone here is done with you.


LOCK THIS THREAD!!!

 

how is that exactly? these are the guys i chill with every day pretty much we're talking about.

and yeah, if i can't hang out with them, they're just gonna move on and find someone else to hang with for the rest of the summer at least.

 

This is a pretty global statement and fills in all the blanks here as far as I can see.

There has been abundant good advice given- you do not want good advice, you want someone to say that you're right and shouldn't have to deal with your insufferable parent's stifling rules. That's an enabler here... enablers help a problem behavior to continue- whether that behavior is addiction, compulsive behavior, abuse, or in this case, cluelessness.

Diton, you're an adult in age only. I don't get the feeling that you're really interested in really growing up but you don't want to be restrained by the "rules of the house". You need to get out of the house- now. You need to sacrifice college and a good job in order to fully grasp the value of what your folks are offering you with the trade-off involving you abiding by a few simple, reasonable rules.... and doing it cheerfully would earn you bonus points and suggest that you might be progressing past the 13 year old mentality you're exhibiting here.

Us "assholes" are doing you a HUGE favor by trying to get you to look at not only the things YOU did to create your current mess but ways of thinking that will help you in life. It's a big, cold, and cruel world out there- filled with way worse assholes than us and your parents-- and most aren't willing to offer you free room and board in exchange for following a few VERY reasonable and simple rules. When I was 21 and still living at home my curfew was 11pm unless I called and alerted AHEAD OF TIME that I would be out later. There were other younger people in the house and the condition of my living there was respecting the house rules and abiding by them- and not creating too much of a conflict with younger brothers. They understood that with a simple call I could stay out a bit later than curfew and my majority status (over 18) earned me that right- the implicit understanding was that I would not abuse it.

I never brought any illegal drugs in the house and the only alcohol I brought in was what was circulating in my bloodstream. Yes I respected the rules, and functioned as part of the family- and not as a boarder at a hostel. It did become evident that I wanted to spread my wings and fly alone- so we agreed that it would be better for everyone that I move out.... which I did. I was made to understand that if things didn't work out I still had a place to sleep- provisional on my abiding by rules I already understood. My liking them was optional but obeying them was mandatory.