Pegging/strap on meta thread (merged)

There's no such thing as Gay or Straight, anyway, just varying degrees of Bi. Even those who consider themselves as being straight will occasionally fnd themselves sexually attracted to others of the same gender, although they will usually do their best to deny it even to themselves & end up feeling guilty about it. The desire to receive Anal sex could be part of the latent homosexual side of him coming out, but that doesn't mean that he automatically falls into the Gay side of the Bi-ness scale.

 

Dude i like how you think

 

naw. correlation doesn't equal causation. ju7st because you like to get it in the ass, that doesn't make you bi, and just because you're bi, that doesn't mean you like taking it in the ass.

 

You might try inserting a finger first and see how you both like it. It's cheaper and smaller. Short fingernails, lube, and patience are the key. Fingering his prostate while giving a BJ is guaranteed to speed him up. BTW, the prostrate is about a fingers length in and will feel like a hard ball, maybe the size of a golf ball. If you have short fingers, he may need to push a little for you to find it. He will certainly know when you do and I think he will let you know audibly. Good luck and have fun.

 

Ok, Many thanks for the great response to this thread, i think for now im going to just stick to using my finger on him, i still dont feel comfortable with the whole strapon thing...... mebys he will get what he wants when im more comfortable with the anal play in general

 

My wife fucks me with a strap on about once a week. We both get so hot and cum so hard.

 

Give him the full nelson

 

id do it. me and my gf use a butt plug, she can get a strap on thats ok, give it a try. im up for almost anything. mind u i am 100% pure hetero. i only like girls 100% and nothing will change.

but when it comes to sex with my gf were keen to try anything.

 

Well that is complete nonsense and the most ridiculous generalisation ive ever heard.
No such thing? I must be a freak then for not having found any men attractive or thought about sex with a lad.
People like you have this stupid way of thinking in which i know i won't be able to tackle.
After a post like this, i wouldnt be surprised if you reply saying either of the following:

'You are only 18 and at some point will find a man sexually attractive'

'You sounded angry in your post, this shows that you are trying to deny to yourself that you have already thought of a man in a sexual way'.

 

Fuck him hard and report back.. the only problem you may have is he'll become addicited to you..

 

Homosexuality is not a Life Choice - surely even you must appreciate that - but something that is determined by the individual balance of male & female hormones. It's not a toggle of being on or off, as can be seen from the wide range of how sexuality affects different people, from the extremely effeminate (or macho for women) to those that vehemently claim to be 100% straight at the other end of the scale. However, this is merely only a claim. After all, it is a medical fact that all males start life in the womb as female. It's only after about 6 - 8 weeks that the Y chromosome kicks in & begins to make the necessary changes. As with anything in nature, no two people are identical with the same balance (apart from identical twins, whoa are, in effect, clones of each other).

 

Even identical twins aren't identical are they?

 

fuck him like the bitch he is..

 

If you are not turned on by the idea now maybe you shouldn't. I would not do it personaly because it does not turn me on.

 

HI THERE,

I'd say tear His ass up
and no chances are he's straight if he's dating you

 

who cares... i mean come on, charlie sheen likes it. so why cant we

 

First of all, I don't think you should do something that you don't want to do just because your partner wants it. Just in case, here is something about those strap on dildos you could use. Just make sure you are doing it because YOU want it and not because HE wants it.

 

I respectfully disagree PineMan......

I feel although you are entitled to like whomever you want, it is a life choice. If it wasn't...... You wouldn't have bisexuals. People seem to leave that out of this discussion. There are plenty of people out there who are comfortable with both genders.

 

My wife fucked my ass the first time with a dildo last weekend and it was amazing. I can't wait for the next time.

 

That is a bad reason. Maybe if you tried it you might like it. I have gotten girls to do a lot of things that they said that they would not do and they wound up liking it.

To the poster, never tried it but have used plugs and beads and they are enjoyble. He is not gay. If it is between a man and a woman and they are into it, go for it, why not, it is normal for cuples to explore new things. The big thing is not to judge or tell others in shame. Once you get that trust there will be things that you want but are now afraid to ask. Get that trust and explore, it is an exciting journey "corrupting" each other.