When Im eating out my girlfriend, honestly I have a tough time making her orgasm. I know that I need to be lickin the clit but how long does it really take? I mean I try to stay consistent but it takes up to 10-15 minutes of constant tongue action. Any methods I should be using to make it more enjoyable to her?
If you know it takes 10-15 minutes worth of clit action whats the issue? Don't bitch that it takes too long it's really annoying when guys do that.
Have you ASKED her what she likes when it comes down to it? See what she prefers, maybe it will help her reach orgasm more quickly if you're doing the right things! I mean seriously, certain pressure in the area, rhythmn, additional stimulation, it all plays a big part in it! Just going down there and doing the same thing for 10-15 minutes with no variation isn't going to do the job, specifically if it's not the particular technique that SHE really enjoys!
alternate licking with using fingers gently and also while licking, insert a finger into her vagina. learn where her g-spot is.
Agreed about adding in the finger action. My girl cums land cums ike no other I've ever known, and enjoys me going down on her...but oral alone rarely gets her there. However, add in a little bit of other stimulation (finger, vibrator, etc...) and look out!
15 minutes? I wouldn't mind someone doing that to me for 15 minutes! I get off just thinking about it.... try fingering her too, one finger at first, then 2 , 3 more if she is into it...
For one I never said I knew it took 15 minutes. One of my questions was is it supposed to take that long. As for everyone else.. thanks for the help. I realize that the same consistent might not be enough, so I'll try new things for sure. I have also never thought of finding her g-spot for some reason. O.O
I find it really hard to cum through receiving oral. I just can't relax since I had bad experiences before. Just take your time. Forget about giving her an orgasm, just vary it up a bit and learn to respond to her body. Even ask her questions- Harder? Here? Can I slide a finger in? Etc. But let her help you. And don't just go at her clit for ages, focus on everything. Actually, try ignoring her clit for a while and only go there when she's really hot, wet and panting. Try touching, licking, sucking, kissing, gentle nibbling. Vary the sensations.
Every woman is different. For instance my second wife would often cum in seconds when I went down on her but since she prefered to cum during intercourse, she usually wouldn't let me eat her for long before we fucked. So I'd go ahead and satisfy her with my cock and then pull out and just eat her to my hearts content, enjoying her delicious juices and then eventually enter her again and bring myself to orgasm with her talented pussy squeezing me as I fucked her. Another S.O. that I had was exremely multi-orgasmic. During foreplay I could mouth-fuck her sweet pussy for quite awhile, bringing her to several, intense orgasms and then she'd have several more as we fucked. No shit. Who cares how long it takes? I would have no problem giving a hot lady a two hour mustache ride if that's what she wanted. I love eatin' pussy!
Lick the alphabet. When that gets boring, start licking sentences, letter by letter. Don't pay any attention to how long it takes, and don't go into it with the goal of getting her off. Go into it with the goal of having some up-close-and-personal time with her vulva and her wetness. The journey, as you know, is the destination.
