I apologize....

For when I came here as a noob about a month ago, and asked all the annoying noob questions that I already new the answers to, and even after reading the stickys that answered them.
topics like-
washing, and worrying bout 'em, and all that.

Thanks for putting up with it! I didn't know how often threads like that were posted.
I now know.
I feel your pain.



Oh, and I washed my head with diluted baking soda and water, It feels clean and wonderful. Thanks for that tip.

 

hey it never bothers me
some ppl dont like offering advice they rather just have drama and fights or mindless stupidity they call entertainment then actualy offewr advice to those who are confused..personaly i dont mind answering the same questions over and over ifd it makes ppl feel liker they got a lil personal attention and guidance..
..even stupid questions dontr bother me unless the answers are met with insults and/or completre ignorance (like someone told me to wipe dog shit ion my hair so no matter what ya say im gonna lkeep doing it) ..thats when i get a lil annoyed

 

I figured SE would give a kind response =]
Thanks for that. I know what you mean, as far as the questions and answers go, As long as other people are kind, I will be kind. Golden rule, eh?!

 

its so much nicer to be nice isnt it?

it really sucks my energy dry when ppl start acting like assholes

 

SE who told you to put dogshit in your hair?

thats just rude

 

huh? nobody told me to do that (i did hear someone say it helps dreads once) what i was saying is it really annoys me when someone whos been grosslyu mislead insists on theyre being right , like the kid that had glue in his dreads insisting iot was the right way to get dreads.. and that 1 guy who refused to believe anything bad about wax then went around insulting ppl for not waxing..that kinda crap
its the same as if thewy insisted dog shit was best for dreads because 1 person said that to them..even thouigh 100 more experienced ppl told them toi wash the crap out

 

lol sarah.

 

its alright, dont worry about it, I didnt try to help much so maybe I shouldnt have said anything....

oh yeah and I disagree with the golden rule as it is based almost completely on revenge

 

Can you explain your thoughts on that to me?

 

your mixcing upo an eye for an eye and do ojto others as youd have others do onto you

the golden rule is if you want to be treatted kindly and with respect thenm trewatr others thast way too

i guess you thought ..if you want to start a fight then trat others like shit? i dunno

 

ok soooooo ill explain I feel the golden rules original idea was good, have some empathy think of how you would feel etc. but I think it has now degraded to what sarah said, as long as others are kind I will be kind, it has also stoped being about being a good person but more on a way to prevent retribution kind of like as lng as I dont do any wrong then they should have any reason to do me wrong...

well thats how I feel anyway, I dont know if it makes any sense

 

ok so your thinking of it as reactionary insteasd or precautionasry

when you should put your best foot forward till its stepped on
i dont think she mean ill be nice only if your nice too..

hell shes nice to some of the meannest assholes around from what ive seen

 

Man, I could have sworn I wrote a reply a few minutes ago!
...

hm... I'm too scattered to even remember what I said!

 

me too but had some coffee so im not si fuzzsy brained

 

My brother was over here today, and we drank coffee all day. Our growth will be ...stunted forever!

I would make some now....But My pops probably wouldn't be too keen on that. But I LOVE coffee. It bothers me how the chillun of today drink pretty much ice cream with coffee drizzled on top from Starbucks or whatever....

I like mine black! I made most of my friends (a list of like....four) try black coffee. They all hated it...

 

i like mine sweet with too much sugar..but thats all

 

I like mine with suga sometimes-If I'm feeling adventurous!

But my mom, for instance, needs splinda and french vanilla creamer and all this fancy pants stuff.

 

splenda? yuck!

 

SE is always kind to the JB that's why he's here... they're as much of a lifestyle choice to him as dreads are.

 

nah Im not really THAT reactionary I generally do try to as you say put my best foot forward I was just commenting on how I feel the golden rule has deteriorated today, although yes many time I do things from reaction, so de we all,

but generally I just try to be th ebest possible person I can be, although sometimes that may include several aspects that some people will dislike. I believe in do good no matter what.

golden rule also has a very huge flaw... it implies that you want to be traeted kindly whereas some people may want to be treated like what we might feel is shit, people who are always loking for arguements for example, golden rule says treat other like you would like to be treated so a masochist should go around punishing people

but this is just me having obsession over proving most things wrong

oh and as to coffee I quote Neil Gaiman saying "black as night, sweet as sin"