Okay, so Im sixteen and most definately a lesbian :] I have a girlfriend and whatnot, but im not out. Anyways, my mom found out I kissed a girl back in like september and kicked me out for over two months. She said if she ever found anything else I was out for good. So I got my cell back for like a week (after getting it taken about the whole girl thing back in september) and she decided to take it for some unknown reason, eh, whatever, thats fine. The thing is, she wouldnt let me delete texts. So theres like 200 texts from my girlfriend and its hella obvious we're def together...and gahh. okay, sorry, just scared.
First of all, tell your mom if she kicks you out you'll call the cops on her because that's illegal in this country. Stay strong notafairytale, your mom is only acting this way because you are dependent on her now. When you get older and can pay your way through life, you won't need her the way you do now, and you might decide to disown her before she disowns you. I believe it goes both ways, we need to respect our parents, but they need to respect us too. Maybe you can you can get a summer job so you can pay your own phone bill and your mom will have no right to look through your texts.
