Could this have caused premature ejaculation?

Hello,
Until now I have never had an issue with premature ejaculation. In fact, for my first 5-10 times having sex I had more of an issue even reaching the point of ejaculation. The night before this sexual experience I had masturbated to the point of ejaculation and stopped as close I could without ejaculation or orgasm. I did this several times and then the next day I ejaculated within a matter of minutes just from a handjob.

This seemed to make sense. However, about an hour or two later I was hard again and we had sex. When we did, again I came quickly, within a matter of minutes of the sex. This is what confused me. Shouldn't it be the opposite effect in which I would take a really long time to ejaculate instead?

This confusion only lead to over-thinking it at the moment, leading to my inability to get an erection with her for the rest of that day.

Thanks in advance for any anwers

 

You probally have this thing because of the way you were taught about the mind, where you focus on the attempt to not focus on cumming and by doing so you bring into focus all the things associate with cumming. So your mind starts thinking boobs, pussies, ass. The reason this is is because the mind doesnt understand "NO". It it like a computer and the thoughts are like disks. You cant put a hot porno of a girl on girl and say, NO girl on girl, computer, NO. The computer is not a person, they do not understand anything, they make things happen. So if you try and NOT FOCUS on the sex, all the mind reacts about, is The sex, the sex, the sex. Instead say like ketchup, good food, good food, love love love...etc etc. OR pick out an imperfection from the girl and focus on how you cant like it. Obviously squeeze hard, down there, in times where you loose focus, use it sparringly.

 

If you start thinking you are having a difficult time ejaculating, then you will start having a difficult time ejaculating. The biggest sex organ is the brain as they say. My advice would be not to focus on the orgasm as the goal of sex but to just enjoy yourself and the experience with the lady. I've had plenty of times where I've haven't cum right away for whatever reason (booze, stress, too much masturbation) but in such instances have switched focus to her enjoyment through oral sex. Sometimes by the time I'm done pleasing her, I get so aroused that I'm ready to go. Good luck.

As for the second orgasm coming quickly ... enjoy your youth!

 

similar to what Puma wrote...why try not having sex. you can get naked and touch each other, kiss, etc but don't attempt to have sex or an orgasm. get really comfortable with your partner and vice versa. i've done this a couple times and it really eases whatever tension is there and its always been a good time.

i have references if you need them.

 

and then wank yourself silly because the testicles need to be drained so that nothing needs to get out. It's going to come out anyway, so why not bring it out in to the open. Maybe with a bit of time it'll take a while to jack off. If so, good.

 

If at first you dont succeed, try try again.