Sharing with his friend

when you say barely anything off limits what does that cover

 

Well ... FREE will is perhaps a little misleading, despite everyone using the term, ad naseum.

Just be open to accepting the inevitable consequences of your actions you selected with this "free will," whether they are good or bad. If your high-risk sexual behavior brings about no consequences, then good for you. If you encounter some sort of negative effects at some point as a direct result of the exercise of your "FREE WILL," then please know that you FREELY chose those consequences as well.

The older I get, the more easily I tire of those wishing to escape the natural consequences of their own actions, as if they didn't know or weren't warned.

All I'm saying is: choose wisely, because FREE will is NOT free.

 

I haven't but that is AWESOME

 

suppressing sucks and it's not healthy.
some of us like to be free.

 

Would never want to share myself. I have met some people who do.

 

Having kids leads to a special bond between male and female that cant really be broken, even if you end up hating each other / divorcing you still usually have to put up with each other in some fashion.

This board and this thread seemed to be filled with 20 somethings and below, so a lot of the repsonses I'd expect to be along the lines of: Oh, I could never share.

Personally, I found once I got to 30, with a fair amount of straight couples my age, I found those jealousy rules started to get relaxed once a couple kids had popped out. Whether it was from stuff I actually saw, or stories I was told (which may or may not be true).

So I think some of you might now find the idea of sharing the partner now incomprehensable, 10 years and 3 kids later, you might have a very very different view. And as that kind of stuff is always done in private, some of you might be in for a rude shock as you work out how your parents and or some of your parents friends really were / are

 

I agree with you vanilla. I have already though about that. But there is a reason its saved for later. Maybe one part of it is because sex gets boring after a while?

Dazed, 'suppression' in this manner is nothing but healthy. Please give me an example of how this would be less healthy than sleeping with multiple people. Plus, I already gave examples of how monogamy is a good thing. Think "long term". I know its hard for people these days. Some things just pay off in the end and not right away.

 

Haha, I'm glad a simple post I made some days ago sparked such a debate. Regardless what a person believes, its fun to read what everyone thinks. I do what I like, and everyone goes their own way. Sharing your ideas is a healthy thing for sure....

I never expected this to get this political at first, but w/e. Its fun.

And to whoever asked what barely anything off limits covers...sounds like someone wants an explicit depiction. That on the other hand will have to be left to the imagination.

 

if theres no jelousy
its all good

 

I think that is great. Not sure I would have been too tired to at least watch the action!

My wife and I have never shared, but I have told her she has my blessing to screw whoever she wants so long as she doesn't keep it a secret.

 

This sounds like fun but I've never done it...

 

i share my wife with a friend of mine its fun to watch and i like licking my wife clean afterward

 

An old close friend of mine has shared his wife with me on occasion. It's a lot of fun and we've had a great time.

But, I can see why some wouldn't do the same, as I don't do the same with my wife. It all depends on who is doing the offering. If it's offered, it's going to be taken and if it's not offered, then there's no need to make a big deal out of it.

I'm sure that makes me seen as having a double standard. You know as if everyone else doesn't have their double standards about many other things....which they undoubtedly do.

 

You posted, now you gotta share. :cheers2:

 

I don't think it's a big deal. Of course, being safe is always of the utmost priority, but after that...I agree, life is too short so have fun!

 

My wife and I have a friend who we are very close to. We have had 3 some with her often. I few time my wife said she was too tired but our friend was wanting to play. She encourages me to do it. It is alot different when it is the 2 of us. We do get alot nastier then when my wife is involved.