hey ladies, i dont know if i can write this question on here but i will ask anyways....i know i mainly post like emotional/hectic threads but today all i need is some help. i havent seen my gf for two months (im home for the summer), and tomorrow im going to see her and im spending 3 days with her. now i think im pretty knowledged in the sex area...but do any of you ladies have any cool tips or secrets that i might not know????? it'd be awesome to surprise her with something crazy she wouldn't be expecting. and sorry if this thread is too 'detailed'...
Gosh! what everyone's prude, sex is sex! Just do what you like...something that she wouldn't expect, you'll fig it out
If you ask her to masturbate in front of you (assuming she does masturbate) then you'll know exactly what she likes. Otherwise just ask, if you say something like "honey, making you orgasm makes me so hot. So if I am doing it wrong don't fake it, I won't be offended. I really wanna do it for you." Use "I" statements and make her feel at ease about telling you what she likes. Unfortunately all women don't orgasm the same way so each woman is more like a puzzle - one missing its solution.
