I got something I wanted to share, maybe you might like it. Just the other day, my bf, his friend, and I were hanging out. His friend was horny, and so was I (secretly.) The three of us had done threesomes before, so it wasn't untested waters... but anyways. His friend was asking about another threesome, but my bf was too tired. Eventually, after much begging from his friend, my bf asked me to take his friend into the other room and shut him up.... So as a result, his friend and I had some crazy fun sex, barely anything off limits. Anyone else ever shared their S/O with their friend?
Before the Prude Police get in here and destroy this thread, I'll say good on you, good on your boyfriend. Life's too short to worry about petty jealousies, its just sex after all
As long as everybody's cool with it, it's all good. Like mr Gorilla said, good on ya for living free. Personally I wouldn't share a girlfriend with anyone.
Haha.. if she were up for it, I probably would share with another girl, or rather, be shared.. I know that makes me a hypocrite, but here we are.
I did that with my expartner in the past, not something that I would do again now that I'm getting married.
I totally agree, I mean I personally wouldn't share my girl (with a guy) so I'm being hypocritical, but still I approve of others doing it. We're young and free, have sex, share each other, have fun, that's what I say.
i wouldnt share my boyfriend... and he wouldnt share me.. . . i never heard of people being so casual about sex before but if noone has any problems with it then good 4 you
Well my bf and I are happy, an no real jealousy issues. It works for us, but i understand why not for everyone else.
Yeah, lets all be free and have sex with everyone. Fuck HIV, well show it! Seriously? There is a reason why people think monogomy is a good idea. Its not like humans have been around for thousands of years thinking monogmy is good for no reason... Sex with strangers feels good, no doubt. This is what separates us from animals though........ One, its healthier to mate with just one person. stds. Two, it feels good to be tried for. (it takes will to just be with one person) Three, its nice to know that your partner is actually willing to make sacrifices for you and try for the better of you both. Good to know they are dedicated no matter what happens or how they feel. Suppressing sexual feelings is one of the hardest things to do. No, I am not going to say "good for you". Shame on you. thousands of species and humans have been fucking eachother since the beginning. Microscopic organisms have been doing it for a long time too. There is nothing special about this. That is what is supposed to make us different. We have will power. Its not a good thing you slept with another person. Its a normal thing. Edit: I would never share my wife with anyone else or expect to be shared. (this includes all sexes and species...)
I Don't see the need to get all upset about it. If it works for her then that's her deal. And I'm sorry, but being able to bone whoever u want is...fun. But then again codemeister, I'm an absolute freak. Cheers.
Yeah, it sure it. I guess I am in the wrong place for this convo. Thats whay hippies are all about, right? Doing whatever you want. It is her deal now. What happens when she is married and gets pregnant from another guy? This happened with my mom and at 15 I found out my dad wasn't my dad. Kind of uncomfortable... Do I need to mention transmission again? I see this becoming a good conversation. Thats why I like this forum. I love stirring up my and others feelings. Its what makes us think and feel. A lot of people think its 'fun' to steal, murder, or rape. Why don't we try that too?
Because stealing, murdering and rape is not consentual. I agree. It's SOOOOOOimportant to use birth control in a situation like this. But if all parties involved are happy with the situation and safe sex is being practiced...the risk seems minimal. Sidenote: I just joined this forum and I fucking love it.
There's nothing wrong with monogamy, but there is something else we as people were blessed with: FREE WILL That means if a person doesn't want to be held by the same rules as others, they don't have to. Isn't that wonderful?
Not everywhere... America is one of the places where you have some free will though. Personally, I am against it. I hope you didn't expect everyone to agree with you on these boards. I have a swinger friend though. I rag on him too. I am not saying that you have to live by the "rules" of others. I am just stating my opinion. I think its easy to sleep with everyone you want. Re-read my post?
Reslynn as long as you and your b/f are comfortable with it, who cares? It'd no one else's business. Having said that, I enjoyed reading your post and if I may say so, based on your pic, both the b/f and the friend are lucky guys.