fucking shit

Discussion in 'Relationships' started by Crystalsatreehugger, Jul 2, 2009.

  1. scratcho

    scratcho Lifetime Supporter Lifetime Supporter

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    Why is he still there?Damn,I don't understand how women put up with the shit they do from fucked up little boys .And he is a little boy.Anyone that uses people like he is using you will NEVER change.He's sure as hell not a man.He's not even close to being a good person.Get him out as soon as possible and don't let the prick slick --talk you into believing his bullshit.Do you think you deserve this guy?Be carefull who you trust with your emotions/life from now on.Good luck--------------------
     
  2. MaryJBlaze

    MaryJBlaze eleven

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    how does one become a "lawn lord"?! sounds like my cup of tea...i lovve grass:)
     
  3. Musikero

    Musikero Lifetime Supporter Lifetime Supporter

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    Hey Crystal! It's been a while (okay, a lot longer than that :eek: ) since we've communicated here. I'm sorry to hear about your situation. I hope it all works out for you. *hug*

    Namaste _/|\_
     
  4. Hot Alpha Female

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    Do you really want to be with someone who will take one bad thing and let that negate all the good things?

    Hun you deserve better.
     
  5. Istar

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    Been a couple days since Crystalsatreehugger been here.. Hopeing everything is turning out well.
     
  6. curious78

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    if its your apartment kick him out.. its not going to end well if he hangs around.
     
  7. ChangeHappens

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    She's probally really sad and is on the brink.
     
  8. TheGrayRaven

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    @ Crystal

    I hope that is not his pic still in your sig.

    If so, I would suggest removing it or perhaps even photoshopping it. That could be a nice fun stress reliever. :)

    Well, I hope everything turns out OK for you with the immediate situation.
     
  9. Musikero

    Musikero Lifetime Supporter Lifetime Supporter

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    It is. She still hasn't gotten around to removing it.
     
  10. Crystalsatreehugger

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    update. It's confirmed. He's been cheating for months and is now with the girl. He's moving out but every time he comes over to get things he screams at me, calls me a bitch and yaddie yaddie yadda, and throws my shit around, even my laptop (all I say is stay the fuck away from me, nothing else). He lunged at me to break my cell phone since I was talking to a comforting friend, so I picked up a stick and beat his ass... literally. He has a big ole welt on the side of his head now :)

    I miss what I thought was real, and part of me still loves him, but I will never take that fool back or support another man again!

    Allgood helped. And the friends I have found to be true. But only time when cure this loneliness, and my longing for what was :(
     
  11. Istar

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    Glad your back on :)

    Would say throw his crap out and change locks if haven't. Hopefully he will get lost and leech off of his current girlfriends. he sounds like the one who will just do the same over and over.
     
  12. FireflyInTheDark

    FireflyInTheDark Sell-out with a Heart of Gold

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    :eek: What an awful story! This person sounds absolutely insane! How did you put up with it for so long??
     
  13. TheGrayRaven

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    :hurray:

    The sig is gone.

    Well, I hope things work out for you in that part of the state. :)
     
  14. ChangeHappens

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    Hey Crystal

    Shit shit, that really is a hard knock I dont expect that you will recover from that, it will be one of those you kind of 'go through'.

    I would definitely rethink what 'real' means. You obviously thought that your relationship was 'real'. I would seriously relook at how you go about finding out who is real and who is fake, to ensure to a higher degree that this change doesnt happen to you again.

    Going through this will be tough, grab on to something important in your life when it feels like its starting to slip away.

    You'll make it and eventually you will be rewarded, regardless of whether you put the little effort that you can -not much can be done.

    Peace to you, enjoy the sun.
     
  15. Crystalsatreehugger

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    So now his skank rode up to my house and screamed you better call the cops you dirty slut. I'm like what the fuck, wonder what she was talking about, so I go to check my car and THEY FUCKED IT UP! Called the cops and I'm putting both of them bitches in jail! I don 't know why I keep updating this but I guess it helps. THIS IS FUCKED UP!!!!!!!!!
     
  16. Crystalsatreehugger

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    I don't know how to fix that signature :(
     
  17. FireflyInTheDark

    FireflyInTheDark Sell-out with a Heart of Gold

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    Okay, go up to the top of the page and find the link that says "Quick Links." Don't click on it, but click the upside-down triangle next to it. A drop-down menu appears. Scroll down till you find "Edit Signature." Click it and it will take you to the box where you can edit the sig. Delete that shit! :D

    You are going to be so much better off. I've dated a guy with anger issues. They lay all the blame on others and expect you to be responsible for them. No one needs that bullshit. Good for you. It's completely his loss. If you can brave it, I'm sure the dust will settle soon and his little bimbos will find something else to occupy their time (like omg nailz and hairz and spendin his moneez, lawlz).
     
  18. Crystalsatreehugger

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    Well now I have prosecuted for throwing my laptop across the room. 3-10 years is what they say he will get. I felt bad at first, but then relief. I didn't have enough evidence for everything else even though everyone KNOWS what he did. I just want him to stop hurting me, harassing me, and attacking me. I did him good. Never cheated, supporting him (big mistake), and tried to get him off drugs. I have soooooo many witnesses it's ridiculous, that I did things right and he lied and fucked me over, all across the board. Karma will get you, and it's called prison. I never thought it would come to this. If you told me 3 months ago I would call you a liar. Well the cards are out and I'm calling him out. He's going down for what he did.
     
  19. Vanilla Gorilla

    Vanilla Gorilla Go Ape

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    Errr 10 years for throwing a laptop, that must be some laptop
     
  20. natural philosophy

    natural philosophy bitchass sexual chocolate

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    getcha self checked for STDs if he's been slutting around on you
     

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