fuck buddy who you've already loved?

bad idea? I guess there is some risk of me developping feelings for him again and wanting more of a relationship.

any advice by experience? and how do you feel towards your fuck buddys?

 

always fall in love with them---but had to learn the hard way that u cant own another human being---so now im not jealous anymore but it took like 30 years b4 i reached this cool point---actulally about ten years for me cas i had a real good run of fuck buddies when i was a cabbie in Reno and i loved em all but they all had there freedom and that even worked in my favor cas some of these chicks were like dont u even care about what i do---im like no your free do what thou wilt--and some of these chicks couldnt stand that--hehehe--really cool dancer-waitress semi hooker beauties---swear to God if i ever get my liscense back--just one more state to clear up--about two years of revocation left--im going back to driving a cab in Reno again--its cash everyday never paid taxes and all kinda of exotic dancer waitress semi-hooker customers who paid me for rides and some of them became fuck buddiies cas we was all cool---------i guess i dont believe in monogamy cas both me and my one true love failed miseryble at it----and i always seem to pull younger chicks and they just want to learn a little then be free so its all good------kinda sad sometimes but good nevertheless---and had alot of really good friends at all levels from platonic to fuck buddy to girls i really was in love with but knew we'd never marry or anything gotta live your life so when you get old you get to remember things and yeah i cry shit like that makes you cry sometimes

 

couple more years n yer dick wont work like it once did ,,, shame shame ya lost the privilege of driving during your peak years

to the op if you are already having worries like you posted then i wouldnt suggest the fuck buddy thing...it just wont work out

 

naw i stole some of my dads cialis and viagra to try it out and hes in his 70s-ill use my own power as long as possible then cheat by eating a viagra without telling and im almost as good as my 20s with that cheat and i guess i like bigpharma best of all the world dominating powers cas it aint like it used to be and i got 10-20 more good sex years--hehehehe and to the op gotta learn how to quit jealously and possesiveness---some of the hardest things to master but if you do your quality of life goes way up---but men r from mars etc so i guess my advice is mostly for men but ive known women who could pull it off be friendes fuck buddies and not be in love--say shit like i love u but im not in love with u---i guess i have a hardened heart---you dont really want that--do you

 

you keep eating all the pills i see you talk about on here you aint gonna live 10 or 20 more years..lol

 

ahhhhhhh yer maturity level is absolutely amazing there feller...:smilielol5:

 

yeah i started getting high way too young and know im not mature--and just doing a fraction of the drugs i used to indulge in---im practically drug free---LOL---dont hate its just me--and my morality or lack of shouldnt be an issue here i hope--im better by far than i used to be--ill never be perfect when it comes to drugs--

 

been there and ummm I didnt mind it but yes feelings arose with him and it just didnt work out sooo end it unless you 2 have no desire to get back together

 

i dont even masturbate thinking about guys i used to be in love with and dont want feelings for...

 

i have a fuck buddy right now and it is extremely hard to not fall in love with him...i keep telling myself its just about the sex and that's it...it doesn't always work though.

 

awn thanks you guys. maybe i should refuse this offer. sex is better with love anyways.

 

I've been considering a similar situation, and I'm thinking I'm going to not go through with it. As much fun as it would be, I can see it being way too awkward afterwards.

 

been there

i developed feelings for one of my old lovers
they came and went
they still do n its been over with him for a month
they will come and go

but just incase test the waters before spillin ur guts

 

Every relationship I have that ends i try to turn into fuck buddy. If ya get feelings again then ya have feelings again. But I guess every girl i meat i try to turn into a fuck buddy, so I might not be the best person to listen to.

 

Hooked up with a lady whom I had pursued passionately in university. It had ended badly - for me at least. A couple years ago we got back together for a while. Not exactly fuck buddies, but lots of hot monkey sex. It felt like unfinished business.

 

I have done this on a few occasions. It did seem to normally end up in heartache for one of us... But with one guy, I realized he was a complete ass during the process so it was therapeutic in that case.

 

I am sleeping with an-boyfriend of mine with my husband's permission. My ex and I USED TO BE in love, but now it is purely sexual pleasure for the two of us. I love my husband ONLY and if he wants me to stop this arrangement, I would in a heartbeat.