Turn On's And Turn Off's

the one turn-off for me is selfishness... so many girls are guilty of this and they don't even realize it.

 

I like it when my man is just a little sweaty and has alcohol breath. Maybe I'm gross, but I love that.

I hate big bulky muscle men and preppie boy types.

 

Turn ons:
-Girls that you meet and they are so different from anyone else you have ever met
-Deep conversation
-A trustworthy person
-Having passion
-Feminine hands and nice fingernails
-Long thick hair that isn't perfect looking all the time
-Girls that can have fun but not be slutty
-Girls who value sex
-Girls who feel comfortable around and take the time to get to know my family
-Little things they do to show you they care, notes or phone calls at work
-Dark hair and fair skin, or lighter hair and tan skin
-Singing to me
-Girls who tear up during sappy movies
-A lady in public (not to excess, or uptight), and a whore in the bedroom
-Knowing that everything we do behind closed doors isn't happening with any guy but me
-Girls who inspire me
-Girls who make me want to be better
-Girls who like dogs and kids
-Short girls
-Those looks where they angle their head down slightly and her eyes smile at you. Those looks show you her heart is yours.
-Girls who have dreams
-Girls who haven't had a perfect life at home, so we can relate
-Lots of eyeliner
-Girls who can be happy, but aren't always happy to the point it's fake, or happiness is their only emotion
-Waking up to her next to me just staring at me
-Cooking with a girl
-Driving with her next to me, holding hands, and not even having to say anything but knowing things are perfect
-Lots of stuff to do with sex, but that's just assumed
-Girls who believe in me
-And many more, I could probably go on forever. Some of those things I have experienced, most I haven't. But the hope isn't totally gone, there are still a few shreds stuck between the layers of scar tissue that has been formed in my heart.


Turn offs:

-Lying, or just even not being completely open about her feelings.
-Sluts or flirts
-Girls who crave attention from anyone who will give it.
-CHEATERS
-Gold diggers
-Shallow or girls incapable of looking beyond the surface
-Girls who gossip
-Unnecessary drama
-Being led on
-Hearing a comparison of me to an ex, regardless of being good or bad, and especially about something sexual. Unless of course it's "OMG, that is soooo much bigger than any of my ex's!!!!!!" LOL, just kidding. Kind of. :X
-Ignorance
-Being narrow minded
-Girls who don't have musical taste beyond pop, r&b, and the top 40
-Girls who only date guys for certain things like playing the guitar, fitting an image, or the car they drive
-Girls who morph into a different person depending on who they are dating
-Girls who agree with everything you say
-Girls who are conservative in the bedroom
-Girls who talk bad about their family or aren't close to them
-Certain types of "clingy" behavior. There is good clinginess and bad clinginess.
-Girls with no hope whatsoever. Depression is ok and good, but not at certain levels.
-Once again, there are many more, but I think this gets the idea across.

 

Turn On's.................females





Turn Off's...................males

 

Tunrn on's~ Sense of humor(major turn on), a big kid at heart, someone whom is like a big teddy bear, sarcasm, I find someone whom smiles constantly is a turn on, someone whom is opinionated is a turn on..when someone has a passion for something, anything (as long as its not weird ) is a huge turn-on

Turn off's ~ dishonesty, greed, assholeness(haha its a word now ) manwhore, uneducated...

that is all i can think of at this moment..

 

Planing on moving to Mars are we?

 

Turn-ons: Enthusiasm for life, warm sense humour, individuality, smiling, eyes that sparkle, intelligence without being overly serious, playfulness, very short or long hair, unshaved legs/pits, natural light tan, shapely body.


Turn-offs: Arrogance, lying, loud women, cackling laugh, make-up + strong perfume, heavy freckling, obesity + anorexic figures, lack humour, women who follow the crowd without thinking for themselves.

 

Turn-ons:
Long hair, sense of humour, good taste in music,open-minded, interested in me, life and God.

Turn offs:
Racism, arrogance, mother-complex.

 

Why would you say that?

 

hehe probably cause your list was so long...maybe, I dont know

 

you mean you did not list them all, those are just a few..

 

Turn on- thongs
eyes
lips
high heels
turn off
bad breath!!!

 

*sigh* You're so right.

turn ons:
confidence
I like hairy guys *blush* Even I have limits (ie back hair) but everything else is fine.
Um... someone who's not afraid to show their soft side. Like, that moment when we're lying in bed and he's stroking my tummy and just turns to me and says something so sweet and loving... I just wanna crawl into his skin and live with him forever.
being genuine


turn offs:
Cheating
Fakeness
small penis (Yes I've had one of these - downt to a certain size, it really doesn't matter... after that... it really does)
ignorance
close mindedness

 

turn-ons


long soft hair to play with
full open lips to kiss
and a girl curled up on a couch under a blanket reading a book...so damn cute

turn-offs

girls who ask me if my dreds are dirty

 

I was simply hinting that if you ever plan on finding such an indivdual, you may have to move to Mars to find them

 

Well I never claimed to have low standards. Get over it. And I also never said I won't date anyone who doesn't meet all those turn ons.

 

I'm over it, you just asked me to clarify. Sheesh!

 

Whoa, calm down!

Turn-on's:
Just that little bit of stubble when it gets rubbed against my neck, certain smells - that indefinable 'male' smell that is maybe hormones or something, but just smells so....**sigh** sexy....., a nice smile, genuinely a GOOD person, uniforms. There is something about a guy in uniform....

Turn-off's:
Arrogance, uncleanliness, moustaches. i can't handle them - they terrify me!

 

Sorry, didn't mean to sound like a dick...