Birthdays are at the bottem. Does anyone know a website for a good compatiblity chart? I'm in a very confusing stage of my life, I'm in love with two guys and I don't know which one to choose. I beleive they both offer me something different and something I need. The gemini who is actually a gemini/cancer, is very responsable and logical, he keeps me grounded, and i know that without him i'd more than likely screw myself over with my self indulgences. But he has such aweful mood swings and I feel as if he restrains me from being who I am completely because he beleives that what I love and want to do is not realistic or rational or whatever. I know if I choose him I'll have a very stable and routine life. And I know I'm going to get bored of it very quickly(which I already am) and I might end up doing soemthing that I'll regret later on (lying, pretending to be busy, affairs). But he's the only person that makes my stomack hurt from laughing so hard, and gives me good critisism that mold me into a better person. he only does whats best for me, he's very selfless and I know he cares about me very deeply. The thing is, the thought of doing anything to hurt him completely crushes me, I care more about hurting my Gemini than hurting my Scorpio. Oh but my Scorpio...what a guy. Everything I want. Amazing eyes. Natural charm, witty, artistic, handsome....I think lust or obbsession is what I really have with my Scorpio. I admire him so much, he draws such amazing things, talks in his oh-so-sexy voice, and has absolutely no idea how every inch of him makes women completely taken by him without knowing what hit them...whew...but back to what I was originally here for, me and him are like one in the same. we want the same things in life, and have the same veiws on things. But if I spend my life with him, it'll be so spontaneous and erratic that we'd prob end up on welfare by the time we're 25, painting on the walls and throwing things in the kitchen all together and creating some dinner that no one thought exsisted. he gives me absolute freedom...but he is a scorpio and gets insanely jealous, but i can't even think of the negative when i think of him. the point is, I'm obsessed with my Scorpio, but inlove with my Gemini. If i end up with my scorpio, we'll dream and dream and never acheive. If I'm with my Gemini, I will succeed and have a fairly stress free life, but will be utterly bored. So I dunno, help me out here, what do I go for? The one who holds my heart, or the one that melts it. If this helps at all here are our birthdays: Mine - November 30, 1990 Gemini - June 20, 1990 Scorpio - November 7, 1989
thanks for the site, but from a non astrological point of veiw, can someone give me some criticism? what should i do?
whoa buddy calm down, its not the end of the world, ppl complain that astrology doesnt solve ur problems and then they complain that ur not asking about how astrology can solve ur problems, hypocritical much?
first off..zodiac aside: life is short. it is too short to be with the person who will provide stability and the nice car and make you a "better person" ("better person" in society's eyes). zodiac: if scorpio man falls in love with you, he will be faithful and provide EMOTIONAL stability. he'll let you be free as long as you return the same amount of passion and obvious love. your gemini is not the one for you if you're already bored and know in your gut things won't end well! like i said, life is short, and based on personal experience i think you'll be pleasantly surprised by the results of taking a risk. there are so many people out there who just aren't cut out to be desk workers and housewives. Gemini has your heart, but love is cyclical, you will love again many many times! you need to LIVE your love!
