I can kind of understand it if there is a large time difference. And maybe the person does not know the exact time difference. Or misunderstands and calls at night thinking it was the afternoon.
i always said, "chicago, what are you thinking, three time zones in one city? it won't work; it will only create confusion," i said. did chicago listen? of course not!
3am has become a completely appropriate time for people to call me... but someone calling for sex would be sorely disappointed.
I am not talking about this situation, dummy. But I am saying, in general, I can understand a 3 am call when it is from a different time zone, sometimes.