When you're on your own, or your boyfriend isn't around, how often do you find your fingers or toys wandering round to your backdoor? And are your orgasms from anal masturbation better than from vaginal?
Never ever. I've never tried anal masturbation and I don't think I ever will do. The only time I ever came close to anything going in there, was when I was sat on my boyfriends lap and he went for the 'wrong' hole. Cheeky shit! He didn't get far, of course. I'm totally satisfied with the sex, foreplay and masturbation I get now, so I've never been even curious about anal. And the thought of going up my ass freaks me out a lot!
there is nothing wrong with anal pleasures. it can be increadibly hot, and can be incredibly emotional for a girl and bonding to have anal sex with their partner. if u dont let ur guy into ur anal regions ur not experiencning some amazing emotional bonding. for a guy it is amazing to have my dick up my gf's ass, its so close and hot and dirty. it is really worth doing. if my gf didnt let me fuck her in her ass, i wouldnt be able to feel as close to her. its like there is limits...and that sucks when u limit a bit of urself away from the one u are suposed to be so close with. there are no limits with me and my gf.
That's awful! It's good that you do it and that you both enjoy it, but for those with no desire to give it a go it doesn't suddenly raise a lack in the ability to bond with your partner. We simply don't partake in something that doesn't turn us on. You mention the limits, but there are limits in everything. I don't feel like licking a toilet bowl either. I'll never "let a guy into my anal regions" and I can be completely certain that it won't harm any sort of bonding. In fact, if it ever did happen it'd probably ruin a lot of things, I'd lose my trust in my partner. And if my partner was so intent in giving it a go to the point that it'd be a case of just having to give in to him, he'd be best off out the door. You and your girlfriend do have limits, it's just that anal isn't one of them. Imagine asking your girlfriend to learn the art of intercourse with the urethra, and her saying no. I would hope you'd respect and love her enough to accept it, rather than saying something like "But that ruins our bonding"... This is just an example, but hopefully you can get where I'm coming from. It's 100% okay that people partake in anal sex if they enjoy it and want to. It's also 100% okay not to.
I've never put my toy up there, I don't think I'd be turned on enough like when my boyfriend puts it in the back.
u have to realise that u cant just go and stick a big dick in ur ass and straight away expect it to feel good. u have to slowly get ur ass used to the idea of anal, by using a single finger for perhaps a week. then slowly getting bigger, and slowly taking a dick. u have to get all hot and horny. if ur not getting hot and horny enough for your partner, than its ur problem and u should take care of it. take some horny supplment pills, they work well. if u have hangups about the anal regions, get over it. me and my gf have talked about everything, were not afraid to do shit and piss sex in the future... lol we have talked about it. we even pee on each other in the shower if we want to. i love this type of freedom with a girl. i would not like anything other.
