Girlfriend's vagina issue. Damn.

I don't know if he is pathetic, or if you are for reading through such a dumb thread that was started a month ago. Calling names out of the blue is pretty shallow. Are you really that boring and mean of a person? Start your own thread with something interesting instead of talking shit to someone you don't know...

 

Boring maybe, but certainly not mean...mean is calling your girlfriend a dumb **** for no reason at all. **** is a horrible name to call a woman and whether I know the girl or not, she deserves better than this guy ranting on the internet about her. no respect...

 

She read his posts and concluded that the OP was pathetic. Having done that, she expressed her opinion in a direct, honest, straightforward manner.

You read her post and concluded that she is also pathetic, that the whole conversation is dumb, that she is shallow, boring and mean. However, you phrased it so indirectly that although you could be certain she'd feel the full force of your criticism, none of the feelings you intended to make her feel could be shown to stem from an actual statement you made about her. Shit's weak, son.

 

I said it was started a month ago, as in she is digging up old stuff. Never did I say she was pathetic because thats not how I feel about her. I also said that calling names out of the blue is shallow; I didn't call her a name (you think so but I did it with manners, making it less rude or shallow) out of the blue. What I mean by out of the blue is reading through threads that are a month old. I was part of this thread, when she posted it highlighted it. I then read the new posts and saw an attack.

How is any of this indirect? I quoted her and was talking about her with the words you and your. Where I am from that is a direct form of communication.

Where do you get this from? I believe that she is merely a mean bored person, not pathetic.

Oh, and I am not your son. Nor do you know me well enough to try to call me your son. If you think my 'shit's weak' then leave it to yourself. Please quit trolling.

Bearfeet, I do think that **** is a nasty word indeed. I also think there are better places and ways to ask the questions he did. But I don't think he deserved to be attacked. God knows I wouldn't want any of my friends spoken about like that on the net. But keep in mind that she is anonymous. I am also not here to defend him, he is wrong for calling a girl a **** for having a 'smelly' vagina and not taking birth control (which is another wrong...).

Why is it so hard for people to do the right thing? That includes calling names when you have strong negative feelings bear. E.G. **** and 'fucking pathetic'. I am guilty of doing something like this before, but we are better then that! (hopefully)

Have fun surfing old thread!

 

Well, running the risk of getting a long legalistic dissertation from codemeister on forum board etiquette, I will say it sounds like rude ppl calling others on their rudeness. (and in the process took this thread way off-topic, to which I am now adding)

Two negatives sorta negate each other don't they?

 

I meant no offense, codemeister, by saying, "Shit's weak, son." It's a phrased used humorously or at least playfully by many people I know.

 

Oh, where we are from (sitting with a texan, alabaman, North carolinian, and montanan) its slightly insulting. Sorry if I interpreted it differently than you meant it.

You think I am rude? How was I rude? Seriously, I just want to know. I wont even comment back. If I have respect for anything other than smart people, its wise people. Being 61 years old most def. should know what is rude and not. I honestly feel that I wasn't rude, just blunt. Thanks for the input. We are all continuously learning about people!

But yes, two negatives equal a positive in mathematics. But in forum etiquette... :rofl:

 

It's too bad they haven't made an HPV vaccine for men yet. Break up with her if you're so disgusted. I broke up with a guy who ALWAYS had bad breath, because I couldn't stand it, and I didn't want to have to tell him to change.

 

i cannot imagine somebody not washing his/her genitals that long!
i wash my vagina every single day! couple of times a day! every morning and every night. sometimes even more, because those are the times in the day i take a bath. and sometimes i wash my intimate parts between the baths........this girl has no hygiene at all!
how can you even be with a person who does not wash her puss in 2 fucking days....wow man,...just wow.
just break with her. tell her straight that she need to clean that place more often. it is for her own good!

 

I'm blind!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Anyway, there are a few things wrong with the situation"

1. This guy doesn't respect women. Sex is a personal thing, and, if someone has a problem, it should be dealt with on a personal level. It would be like if she came on posting about how tiny some guys dick was. Even if the person doesn't know, the action demonstrates respect.

2. This girl obviously has some medical/hygiene issue that is making her less than pleasant. Vagina's can smell from very arousing to not totally pleasant and be healthy, but, if it stanks, it could be any number of infections, chemical/hormone imbalances, etc. It should be checked out by a doc.

3. This girl has HPV and you aren't using protection. She would tell you "doctor says I have signs of HPV" unless she had it. Trust me; no one is like, "yo, I might have a VD. I'm not sure, but, I've got signs." It just doesn't happen. She was telling you she was HPV positive; that was the considerate thing to do. The smart thing for you to do is use a condom.

Sounds like this isn't something you're intereted in contiuing. Go get test. Go get treated, and use protection from now on.

 

Doesn't matter if you used a condom or not; if she has HPV, you do too. And there's no definite test for men. You just... have it. And you'll pass it on to everyone you fuck, until it like, deactivates itself. It works kinda like chicken pox. You have the virus forever, but it doesn't stay active, for lack of a better term.

 

LOL mate it's like you are one of the contestant of Fear factor. Good luck to you because you fuck her unprotected i think she got some STD.

 

im glad you bumped this thread :rofl:

made me laugh :rofl:

 

vages arnt sposed 2 smell that bad unless she never showers. She'l have BV. bacterial vaginosis, u treat that with pills. Tell her, ew

 

Sounds like your girl has muff cabbage.

 

ahahahaahahahahahahahah im crying :2thumbsup: