How often do you guys have sex?

Well... long story short, my boyfriend seems to want to have sex a lot, and I don't seem to want it as much as he does. True, that we don't have sex very often, and he initiates all sexual contact since the beginning of our year and a half relationship. I'm here to ask the following questions:

1)How often do you couples have sex?
2)Do the males in your relationships always initiate sexual contact?
3)If they don't, can they please explain how frustrating they would feel if they did?

 

- my ex and i did it at least once a day, usually more.
- no, i initiated a lot. probably like 60 me 40 him in past relationships it was more equal.

are you having sex even when you don't want to? have you talked to him about it?

 

woa thats abit to much for me like cudnt be doing it once a day not tht we have the chance nyways.
well thats where he has the problem i dont nd he thinks i shud be.

nd no am not having sex when i dont want but i stop it from happening alot and i dont start it off like EVER nd he hates these facts nd yes i have but he gets angry over it which i understand

 

he thinks you should what? if he's angry at you, that's not really cool.
what have you got from the discussions w/him? is he willing to adjust to your needs?

are there ever times when you want to initiate? maybe you could try.

i can imagine that's a tough position to be in.. i wish i knew how to help

 

he thinks i shud start things first, coz i dont. yeahh he does coz he gets fraustrated that i dont start anything.
i dont know really, but ive said al try and start things off first, well he thinks after 18months i shud be starting things off.

erm..... noo i dont think there has been, but this one time wen i felt as though i did but there was no protection so nothing happened.

it really is, you are helping thank you .

 

He needs to know that he excites you, turns you on, you WANT to have sex with him.

Just start it up every now and then... assuming you do enjoy sex with him once it gets going, there are no issues preventing it, etc. You will find that arousal precedes desire - if you start doing sexy things, you will get horny.

 

As to how often we're doing ever other day some times everyday and multiple times a day.
My wife and I are about tied as to who starts it.

 

somewhere around 5 times a week.

I don't always start

I love it when she does.


I'm 47 and have been married for almost 19 years

 

First, how old are you?

 

maybe 4-5 times a week. My boyfriend usually starts everything, and he also doesn't like it. He would prefer if I initiated it more often, so I can empathize with you on this. It's not that I don't enjoy sex, but more so that I don't get a strong urge to initiate it. Once I start though, it's great

 

every morning and every evening if your in a good relationship---if your tired or mad you canskip the evening thing--but the morning is mandatory--at least thats what i think

 

2-3 (sometimes 4) times a day when I see my girlfriend. Due to her job I am only able to see her twice a week though, so that averages out to 4-8 times per week.

I initiate most of the time but she initiates maybe 1/4 of the time. Unfortunately she is at her horniest during ungodly early hours of the morning for some reason, when I want to do nothing more than sleep. At 5-6AM, I don't even want sex.

 

I like the way you think. Its the only way to wake up! Thankfully, my wife is horny a lot in the morning.

Thats actually how it breaks down for us, unintentionally but nonetheless - she starts it in the morning and I start it at night. In between, either one of us might go for a quicky, although I do that more often than she does. I LOVE it when she does though.

In the long run, I'd say it probably breaks down to me starting it about 65-70% of the time.

 

thanks am glad am not the only one then

 

people can have amazing relationships and not have mandatory morning sex

 

All joking aside, sex should never be or feel mandatory.

Morning sex is awesome though, makes the whole day better, and makes me think about it all day then we have great night sex as well.

:cheers2:

 

Pretty much every day, often more than once a day. I couldn't tell you who makes the first move most of the time, it just kind of happens.

 

me and my gf have been having sex once/twice a day lately.

im taking herbal body building supplements that increase testosterone to help me work out and build more muscle quicker, they make me really horny all the time.

and iv just put my gf back on some female horny pills, not that she needs them. but when she is on them she is just absolutly wild.
even when shes not on them shes ready to take it anytime. oh yes shes a good girl.

i suggest u go to the pharmacy and buy some horny pills. they really do work.

also is he hot? he cant be, perhaps ur simply not attracticted to him

 

yea i dated a girl and she wanted it like 5 times a day... at first i was like cool. but after you bang 5 times a day for a month (i never thought id say this but) it actualy becomes more of a chore then a pleasure. but she was really wild and i stuck with her for a while. Also imagine trying to find time to bang 5 times a day. jeeze i was tired all the time.... good news is it got me in relaly good shape. sit ups are for wimps haha

 

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