sex life and relationships - complications!

Is it me or are these things so complicated. Its like a full time task as well. Or maybe its me, out of practise?

I'm a male mid 20's and just come out of a 4 year relationship. I now feel out of practice with chatting up girls. I also do not want another relationship not like the one i just come out of anyway.

I sometimes felt opressed in the relationship, like i had a ball on a chain. Ideally i would like a open relationship where i could experiment with different sexual partners. i feel i could do with more expereinces in this department.

I guess what i am asking is do othe rpeople on here sometimes feel the same or is it just me?

 

youre probably not looking for a response like this..
but i truly believe that meaningless sex is going to fix a thing for you.

 

once you've been off the market for a while, you kind of need a fuck buddy to regain your confidence. once you've regained confidence in your desirability, pickup skills, and intimacy skills, you'll be able to move on and develop a more serious relationship with someone else

 

If you'd really like an open relationship, check out the polyamory community. If you want to have multiple relationships and be open about it, and you can handle the jealousy when your partner also has multiple relationships, it might be the thing for you.