I have tied up, been tied up, and handcuffed as well. Not a big fan of the handcuffs...I like pain, but the not the kind I get from handcuffs.
ive tied my ex up with either rope, scarves or handcuffs. and I have been tied up in really interesting ways once i my arms were tied to my legs while i was lying on my back or I had myright leg tied to my left arm while laying on my stomach. it was fun.