Ladies : Your First time...

How old were you? How old was he?
I was 15, he was 17

Did your partner know you were a virgin?
Yes. He was too

Where did you lose it? Describe the moment.
In his bedroom while his parents were away. The moment was awkward

What kind of relationship did you have with this person? (friend? bf/gf? Fiancé? wife? etc)
Boy/girlfriend thing

When and how did you break your hyman?
I have no idea. No-one really knows that, do they? It isnt always first penetration of a penis

Were you afraid you were going to bleed during your first time having sex?
No I wasnt

How long after your first time of having sex did you stop being sore?
I wasnt sore

Was your experience like doing it for the first time? (rough? enjoyable? both?)
Crap as he was unresponsive and selfish expecting me to do everything

Did you cry?
No

How long did the session last?
About 20 minutes (me fumbling about a lot trying to please him and thinking "is this it?")

Did you orgasm when you had sex the first time?
Definitely not!

How did you feel right before it happened?
Yeah, ok

How did you feel afterwards?
A bit let down, but ok

How did he react having this experience with you?
He seemed about the same

Was it spontaneous thing or was it planned?
Bit of both

Do you still see the person that took your virginity?
No, lthough we recently traced eachother and are talking online. We laugh about it

Do you regret it?
Nah, could have been a lot worse

Any final memories? flashbacks? ‘if only this planned...’ kind of thoughts?
Not really, just fun memories of how awkward the first time can be when youre both virgins and hes expecting it to be like a porno

Any advice for first timers?
Relax, do what feels right, and TALK things through with your partner if you have any apprehensions or anything. Sensitively, of course. Have fun!


Thanks for going down memory lane with me…
Youre welcome

 

How old were you? How old was he?
I was 17 and he was 19

Did your partner know you were a virgin?
Yes

Where did you lose it? Describe the moment.
In my car on top of a parking garage

What kind of relationship did you have with this person? (friend? bf/gf? Fiancé? wife? etc)
We had just started talking but weren't exclusively a couple. We had been talking about a month.

When and how did you break your hyman?
Probably with a tampon but I dunno..

Were you afraid you were going to bleed during your first time having sex?
No. never occurred to me

How long after your first time of having sex did you stop being sore?
I wasn't really sore the first time. But the times after that it was sore in the beginning, never really afterwards i don't think..

Was your experience like doing it for the first time? (rough? enjoyable? both?)
It didn't hurt. It wasn't really exciting. He seemed surprised because he asked if I really was a virgin haha

Did you cry?
No

How long did the session last?
Not sure. Maybe 10-15 min.

Did you orgasm when you had sex the first time?
No

How did you feel right before it happened?
Excited and anxious. I was listening to Andre 3000 The Love Below "Spread for Me" hahah, before we met up

How did you feel afterwards?
Fine. Felt pretty close to him. We listened to the rest of the The Love Below album. The song "Pretty Pink Baby Blue" became a special song for us

How did he react having this experience with you?
We started falling in love within a month

Was it spontaneous thing or was it planned?
It was totally planned. I was curious and wanted to have sex. I had actually asked another guy I was talking with at the time what he thought if we had sex. He said he thought it would be weird since we weren't really dating. So then I asked this guy and he was totally up for it. And actually, my sis who was 14 at the time and her boyfriend had sex for the first time on top of the same parking garage in my guy's car on the other side of the garage. Pretty weird for some people, but me and my sis are close..hahaha. My guy supplied the condoms for them as welll hahaha

Do you still see the person that took your virginity?
Yup. I lost my virginity to him January 30, 2004. And then September 27, 2008 we got married after seeing each other in an open relationship until October 12, 2004 when we made it official and dated all the way while I was in college 1 1/2 hours away. Now we are buying a house together and will move in 2 weeks from now.

Do you regret it?
Obviously not. I lost my virginity to the man I married. We are totally in love.


Any advice for first timers?
I think planning it out was a good idea. That way you can think it all over and make sure you don't do something stupid. but i can see how doing is spontaneously would make it exciting, especially if you and the other person have a good realtionship. I definitely would NOT recommend doing it with a random person you don't have a good relationship with. Ehh which I almost did

 

What a sweet story

 

SEx the first time is over rate..... just get it done. nothing real special till later on.

 

How old were you? How old was he?
I was 15 at the time and he was 18.

Did your partner know you were a virgin?
Yes, we both were and we knew that from each other.

Where did you lose it? Describe the moment.
In a small tent on the land of a house in the south of france my family owns. We were there together on a vacation and had the tent put all the way to the other side of the land near the woods for atmosphere and thats where it happened.

What kind of relationship did you have with this person?
This person was at the time my boyfriend, back then we were only together for about a month but the intire thing lasted for well over a year.

When and how did you break your hyman?
We broke up about one and a half years after that, due to his emotional problems (severe depression) and my inability to be optimistic for two people. I can manage one, but he was so far in the apathy and depression I couldn't help him, and he was taking it out on me so I couldn't take that anymore either. I tried as long as I could and in ways I still regret ending it, it was special.

Were you afraid you were going to bleed during your first time having sex?
I wasn't and I didn't. I was glad I didn't though.

How long after your first time of having sex did you stop being sore?
That only took a few minutes.

Was your experience like doing it for the first time?
Best way to sum it up: about 5 seconds. It went in, slightly out, in, slightly out, done. It was a bit of a dissapointment but I can't blame him, he was a virgin aswell. The third time was a lot better.

Did you cry?
No. Why would I have done that?

How long did the session last?
As I said, about 5 seconds. At most.

Did you orgasm when you had sex the first time?
Haha no. I did the third time though.

How did you feel right before it happened?
Exited, very very exited.

How did you feel afterwards?
Slightly dissapointed but exited to try again until it'd be good.

How did he react having this experience with you?
He didn't dare to at first, was a lot more nervous about it then I was but he was mostly wanting to do better then the first time so haha.

Was it spontaneous thing or was it planned?
Slightly planned, slightly spontaneous. We talked about it before, but we hadn't picked a day or anything like that.

Do you still see the person that took your virginity?
I hadn't seen or spoken to him in years after a huge fight áfter we broke up. Last year that was made up and now this year I first saw him again in all that time and we actually hung out for an intire day and had a good time. We're finally normal friends again and I'm glad about that.

Do you regret it?
Not at all! It was the first person I ever truly loved, and possibly the person I atleast then loved the most. I can only say I can't think of anyone better to have lost my virginity with.

Any final memories? flashbacks? ‘if only this planned...’ kind of thoughts?
Not really. I'm glad it was him, and we had a long relationship after it, especially considering I was 15 years old at the time. Almost two years is long when you're 15, it easily becomes a big part of your life.

Any advice for first timers?
If the guy is a virgin too, make sure he already got out sperm earlier that day, else it might be WAY TOO short.


Thanks for going down memory lane with me…

 

How old were you? How old was he?
I was 19 and he was 22

Did your partner know you were a virgin?
yep

Where did you lose it? Describe the moment.
at his house, while watching jay and silent bob strike back, after staying up all night getting extrodinarily stoned

What kind of relationship did you have with this person? (friend? bf/gf? Fiancé? wife? etc)
friends

When and how did you break your hyman?
shit i dont know..

Were you afraid you were going to bleed during your first time having sex?
nah

How long after your first time of having sex did you stop being sore?
i wasnt really sore the first time.. i get more sore now, but that's cuz i likes it rough

Was your experience like doing it for the first time? (rough? enjoyable? both?)
it didn't really hurt.. it could be described like a good pain i guess?

Did you cry?
lol.. no

How long did the session last?
not long at all.. he decided it was too much for him, it being my first time and all

Did you orgasm when you had sex the first time?
um, no. in fact, i've never orgasmed from sex [penetration] i've only orgasmed from masturbation and oral.. but im hard to get off

How did you feel right before it happened?
i was nervous and i felt kinda silly because i'd literally never done anything with a guy before so i didn't know what to do for him

How did you feel afterwards?
i felt... okay. i was glad it was over and it was with someone i liked, not a random person.. and i was kinda like "thats it?" of course, it's been much better since then (fyi, based on later experience, he didn't know what to do with it anyway)

How did he react having this experience with you?
he was cool.. we were fuckbuddies for a while afterward and he was my practice dummy for blowjobs.. we're still friends and he calls me every once in a while (note: NOT bootycalls.)

Was it spontaneous thing or was it planned?
spontaneous. i drove him home from a mutual friends house (im pretty sure i stopped at a green light on the way, we were seriously seriously stoned) anyway he asked if i wanted to come in and we put in a movie and one thing led to another

Do you still see the person that took your virginity?
i haven't seen him in like 3 years.. but like i said, he still calls occasionally.. hes still a friend

Do you regret it?
No. I believe everything happens for a reason and even though it could have been different and/or better, i wouldn't have it any other way


Any advice for first timers?
Don't expect too much, even if your partner isn't a virgin, just go with it. It takes time to figure out what you like and dont like, practice makes perfect. (of course i mean practice with someone you trust and who gives a damn about you, not with rank strangers) and PLAY SAFE!!!

 

How old were you? How old was he?
I was 18, he was 21

Did your partner know you were a virgin?
Yep, he knew I had never done anything with a guy before, he was my first kiss also

Where did you lose it? Describe the moment.
In his single bed, in the room he rented in his friend's parents' house while at college. I only found out later that his friend's dad was my grade 8 music teacher

What kind of relationship did you have with this person? (friend? bf/gf? Fiancé? wife? etc)
Boyfriend/girlfriend for about 10 days

When and how did you break your hymen?
My hymen was uber strong and didn't break during sex, so I had it removed surgically.

Were you afraid you were going to bleed during your first time having sex?
I was scared of this, I didn't bleed however it was painful (see above)

How long after your first time of having sex did you stop being sore?
We tried having sex many times unsuccessfully because it was too painful for me. I wasn't sore long afterward though.

Was your experience like doing it for the first time? (rough? enjoyable? both?)
Never actually 'done it', only attempted. I'll let you know in a few days how that goes

Did you cry?
nope

How long did the session last?
Prolly half an hour with kissing/foreplay, and then attempting sex

Did you orgasm when you had sex the first time?
No but my boyfriend gave me my first orgasm with fingering/oral a couple months after that

How did you feel right before it happened?
I was scared tbh but excited at the same time

How did you feel afterwards?
Even though we didn't actually have sex, I felt very close to him and it was an overall good experience

How did he react having this experience with you?
He was really understanding and gentle

Was it spontaneous thing or was it planned?
It happened after about a week of making out & other things, so it was going to happen sooner or later but the actual day was not planned

Do you still see the person that took your virginity?
No he broke up with me just before our one year anniversary, I haven't talked to him since

Do you regret it?
Nope, despite penetration not happening with him, we were in love and he was a great guy to have that experience with

Any final memories? flashbacks? ‘if only this planned...’ kind of thoughts?
It would have been nice if the first time had been a little more special...candles or something romantic. But all in all it was a good experience

Any advice for first timers?
Wait for that special person, and don't let anyone rush you. Hopefully I don't scare you off with my story, it's pretty rare but I want people to know about it so they don't think it's all in their head like I did =/

 

How old were you? How old was he?
i was 18 and he was 19.

Did your partner know you were a virgin?
yes...i was kind of vunerable when it came to stuff like that...i mean, like really vunerable...i was sexually harrassed when i was ten so...yeah.

Where did you lose it? Describe the moment.
his house, his bed. haha, the look on his face was so priceless.
so cute. haha. =p i've never seen someone's eyes get that wide. =p

What kind of relationship did you have with this person? (friend? bf/gf? Fiancé? wife? etc)
boyfriend. =]

When and how did you break your hyman?
erm...if i broke it, either broke it with him or broke it by myself. lolz.

Were you afraid you were going to bleed during your first time having sex?
no. you don't really think about things like that, when the moment's right. =p

How long after your first time of having sex did you stop being sore?
it took me a while to have sex without becoming sore and stopping him because of it...but now i'm a little more in shape so...it doesn't really effect me. too much anymore.


Was your experience like doing it for the first time? (rough? enjoyable? both?)
of course it was enjoyable, it was a giant sigh of relief...lolz. yeah, that's it. =p

Did you cry?
no. hell no.

How long did the session last?
hrm...with foreplay or without? lolz.
ummm...i don't know possibly 30 minutes to an hour. it wasn't very long, i was really sore. lolz.

Did you orgasm when you had sex the first time?
yes.


How did you feel right before it happened?
how don't you feel right before an orgasm? lolz.
whole body tenses, you start to get that warm, tingly sensation...and then boom. yay orgasms. =p

How did you feel afterwards?
relieved, proud, closer to that person...yeah, love. love.

How did he react having this experience with you?


Was it spontaneous thing or was it planned?
spontaneous.

Do you still see the person that took your virginity?
i'm still with him. =]

Do you regret it?
no. hell no.

Any final memories? flashbacks? ‘if only this planned...’ kind of thoughts?
memories: just it felt so good to finally have sex, and his eyes were so wide and cute...ugh, his voice is so hot. lolz. whew! lolz.

Any advice for first timers?
wait for the right person. don't give two shits about what anyone says. wait. you won't regret it.

 

How old were you? How old was he?
13, 15
Did your partner know you were a virgin?
yes
Where did you lose it? Describe the moment.
at his house, in his room.
What kind of relationship did you have with this person? (friend? bf/gf? Fiancé? wife? etc)
boyfriend for about 6 months
When and how did you break your hyman?
...
Were you afraid you were going to bleed during your first time having sex?
a little, not really
How long after your first time of having sex did you stop being sore?
i think it was gone by the next day
Was your experience like doing it for the first time? (rough? enjoyable? both?)
it was very painful, and not really enjoyable
Did you cry?
no
Did you orgasm when you had sex the first time?
no
How did you feel right before it happened?
kind of nervous
How did you feel afterwards?
it was not what I was expecting, but i was kind of thinking "god, I hope it gets better"
How did he react having this experience with you?
he was happy
Was it spontaneous thing or was it planned?
kind of both. we had been talking about it for a while, but we hadn't agreed on a date or anything
Do you still see the person that took your virginity?
yeah, sometimes
Do you regret it?
not really
Any advice for first timers?
I think I will echo everyone else and say wait. Not necessarily until you get married or anything, but I'm sure that I was way too young

 

How old were you? How old was he? I was 18, he was 15.

Did your partner know you were a virgin? Yeah.

Where did you lose it? Describe the moment. In my friend's roomate's bed, haha... My friend was having a party and her roomate was working all night. Me and my boyfriend ended up in her room at like three in the morning... Yep.

What kind of relationship did you have with this person? (friend? bf/gf? Fiancé? wife? etc) He was my boyfriend at the time.

When and how did you break your hyman? No idea, tbh.

Were you afraid you were going to bleed during your first time having sex? Not really.

How long after your first time of having sex did you stop being sore? I really wasn't sore at all, except for the moment when it happened... kind of hurt a little.

Was your experience like doing it for the first time? (rough? enjoyable? both?) Just enjoyable.

Did you cry? No.

How long did the session last? I don't really remember... time wasn't an object at the time, since I was sort of drunk and still a little high from earlier in the night. Haha.

Did you orgasm when you had sex the first time? No.

How did you feel right before it happened? Don't remember.

How did you feel afterwards? Kind of like it was no big deal. I had fooled around with him besides sex before losing my virginity to him, and I just felt like I did when we would just be fooling around.

How did he react having this experience with you? Don't know. He never really was one to share his feelings.

Was it spontaneous thing or was it planned? It was supposed to happen for a few weeks before that. But it wasn't planned that it would happen that night.

Do you still see the person that took your virginity? Yeah. Still talk to him, too. Still trying to get him back, actually.

Do you regret it? Not at all.

Any final memories? flashbacks? ‘if only this planned...’ kind of thoughts? Not really.

Any advice for first timers? Don't push yourself to do it. Don't do it because you feel like you should, because you feel left out since other people you might hang out with have already had sex. If you're comfortable enough with someone, and you feel like you're okay with yourself to do it, go ahead.

Oh, and use protection. Haha.

 

Yeah its nice today is actually six months for us. We both want to be together forever. I think its still possible in the day and age to be with your first one. I don't feel like I am missing anything either, he makes me happy so why should I be greedy.