Problems with multiple orgasms - help!

Hey,
I'm on a path towards trying to become orgasmic. I have worked my PC muscles to the point where I can now fully hold back ejaculation. I am at a point where I can do this with ease, but when I do i still lose my erection. I know that this means that the semen went to my bladder and will be harmlessly release the next time I urinate, but how do I fix this?

There was a time where I was able to hold back without losing an erection for atleast 2 or 3 times, but now I can't do it. Am I flexing at the wrong time?

Thanks in advance for the answers.

 

hmmm iv been doing my kegel exercises, but i havnt actually ever tried to hold back from coming using my muscles.

i thought kegels just helped overall.
but i have a feeling if i was to do it, id pull my kegels a few seconds earlier than u are, cause ur cummin but not really, i think u need to pull and not cum. i have no idea, but im gonna try this now tho.

 

Really? Well it's difficult but if you try enough times you can easily learn to hold back all ejaculation with just your PC muscles alone. My question is how to do it without losing the erection, which is the next step to becoming multi-orgasmic!

 

hmmm. cause i know if i want to cum i squeeze those muscles and it actually makes me cum.